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If a guy that asked me out is a jerk to other people, but has always been so sweet to me, should I still date him?

He is, I will admit, a bully. I can't STAND bullies... But he has always been the nicest person to me... he asked me out and I said no. Did I make the right choice?

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Yes, you did. A guy who doesn't treat others well is not worth your time. You shouldn't even want to date him if he does that. He will soon start treating you badly as well. Stick to that decision, it was the best one.

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No don't date him. Lol

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Where's Phlorence lately?
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I'm not sure, actually. :/
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I miss her witty answers and comments.
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no you should still date him

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No, I made that mistake once. I wouldn't suggest it but follow your opinion

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Don't... He's got his own hidden agenda.

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Unless you're bigger & stronger then he is, how long do you think it will take until you're being bullied. Guys are always nice when they're trying to score

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He seems unstable. Not worth your valuable time hon.

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NOOOOO!!!!! He is being nice to you because he thinks you can do something for him. As soon as you don't he will be a jerk to you as well. You'll see when you don't go out with him.

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Absolutely not. It's in his character. He will eventually start treating you in a manner that no one should be treated.

in response to your first question.

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I have to agree with those that have said No don't see this guy. A person's actions will ALWAYS speak louder than words!!! When I was dating I was told to look at how a guy treated his mother and sister's if he had any. That's how I could tell how he would treat me.

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Truly wise advice.
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I knew a bully that I used to hate and we we became partners I thought he was using me so I can just help him but when I got to know him, He is really sweat and nice and now we are close friends for 3 years!! and he stopped bullying people So u never know the true of them by their actions so first get to know him..
He may be nice and he may be a jerk.... U never know until u try!!

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the reason he's so nice to you is because he likes you. he's probably bullying people because of something in his past. maybe if you get to know him more, you might change your mid, and perhaps get him to stop bullying.

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YES. you made the right choice. he was being nice… and totally fake. to you

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