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If I am 15 and I started dating my boyfriend in November '12 and he turned 21 in February '13 and I turn 16 in July can he get in trouble?

I really love this guy and I know he would never do anything to hurt me in any way

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4getLogic

OMG Noooo! get out of that relationship!!!! he's WAY too old for you and no you don't love him !

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you dont know who i love , im pretty sure you dont know me guy, hop off .?
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problema nenhum

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You should not be dating anyone that is legal and your not even legal yet ....you can get hurt .

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Yes he can get in trouble your under age. you need to leave this relationship asap.

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Honestly, I think he is much too old for you. You're not even allowed to get a drivers license yet, and he's now allowed to drink!

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ibepwning

YEAAAHHH he can get in trouble... you're a minor and he is an adult already. That's illegal.

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Well my brother is 18 and dating a 14 year old
My sister is 15 dating a 20 year old so why not

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You don't have any problems with your 15 year old sister dating a 20 year old ? That's messed up...
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Maybe 20 and 25 but 15 and 20... I don't think so...
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Why not? umm...because he can make her do things she isn't supposed to, and IT IS against the law...that is why.
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He is wayyy to old for her.
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Yeah, that's really not going to end well, coolkid.
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I agree...but obviously some people see nothing wrong with it...
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Where are the parents??? No responsible, loving parents would allow it
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The parents are losers and don't care what they're kids do
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yes end the relationship if you really love him and dont want him to get in trouble. if he loves you he'll wait for you. its like that saying, "if you love something let it free, if it comes back, its your forever"

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DukeCityMuscle

Depends where you live, every state and county has its own "age of consent". And the difference between your age and his may be a factor too. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

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I would get out of that relationship because he is so much older than you he could take advantage of you. I know you might not think he would ever do that but guys do crazy things for no reason.

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sabrina4everful

you cant do thattt.... just keep it a secret ok? :)

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Neaver good to keep secrets...
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4getLogic
Bad answer >:-(
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No its not, I belive Secrets are like lieing.... I don't belive telling some one it is ok to lie, I am honist, maybe to honist some times but I think its better to tell the trueth then running around lieing all the time
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I was saying bad answer to Serena4everful
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lol sorry I didnt see you had no pic... am sorry... I just don't think lieing is right, also 5 year diffrents is not bad, But I do think the girl and here boy friend should wait to go all they way untail shes 18 even if they have or havnt already
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Paige, it is bad. My baby girl is 15. I just look at this girl as a baby still. By the way, Paige is a beautiful name.
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I know its hard but would you want her if she is dating an older guy lie to you or tell you the trueth? As much as it would hurt... I know 15 and 21 seems like a big jump but its a 5 year diff. that is not that big like my mom and step dad are 10 years apart me and my husband are 3years apart, I think if they date and don't go all the way untail shes 18 then great, I don't think it would be the best for her or him to do ANY thing below the belt tell shes 18. But that is me and how I feel bout it, When my little sister that is 17 told me that she had sex more then once I about died! I feed bathed and changed her when I was 5 years old singed her to sleep. Its a mind blower for sure but it is life, and Thank you... :)
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No it is illegal and it won't work out

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Yes and no... If your mom and dad approve then no he can't and if they don't then he can go to jail for a very long time... you two are only 5 years apart that's not bad, but best bet is to wait tell you are 18 to go all the way if you guys have not done so already. It will help keep you safe and the guy safe as will cause he can go to jail and the court can put a cour order restraining order against him tell you are 18....

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Yes because he is to old and he might try to abuse you because he thinks older than and might even force u to do it with gim but you are to young get out of there

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ask yourself why a 21 year old would date a 15 yr old!! hes obviously irresponsible and doesnt respect the law!

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You got it Luke.
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oh and if she loves him, why would she put him at risk like that?
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He can go to jail.... but love is love so don't have any sexual intercourse and you have to get your parents permission or just keep it a secret :O either way he's to old for you

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Hey y u block me
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Break up because u two can get in serious trouble depending which state u r in but still u shouldn't be dating him I believe that is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS

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15yr old with a 21yr. old. What kind of conversations go on between the both of you? Do you guys have anything in common, like what are you guys good at with eachother? And yes, he will go to jail. My son told me about a girl he really likes, he's 18 going to graduate in a couple months, she's 16. I told him noway, he can be arrested. Again, what are you guys good at with eachother? He's a sicko, not playing with a full deck. He will DEFINITELY go to jail.

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Ya

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Ok, first of all, HELL NO! HE COULD GET IN SOME SERIOUS TROUBLE! Second, I think you get out of that relationship, I know you love him, but that's just not right.

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age does not matter if you love that person.

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unless one is underage and the other could go to prison! if its love it can wait a couple years!
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age does matter!
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YES! he might be put on the sex offenders list!!

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