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How to talk to a girl i see every day at station?she has always music on? how to start talking to her? how to make eye contact?

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DukeCityMuscle

Thank you for pointing out that constantly listening to music makes it really hard for someone to approach you and say hello. My young friends all say I'm crazy but you have VINDICATED me!

Wave politely in her field of vision and make eye contact so she knows you want to speak to her. Wait for her to take out the earphones. If she tries to talk to you with the earphones still in, make the "please remove your earphones" gesture. Maintain a pleasant smile the whole while. When you have her attention, tell her you see her at the station all the time and you wanted to introduce yourself. Tell her your name. Ask what music she's always listening to.

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Be yourself and everything will work out perfectly. I promise. Just be you.

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you could ask what music she's listening to see if you share the interest, then start a conversation about music at least pretend your interested in her interests

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Don't pretend you like what she like because you don't want to start a relationship with lies. instead say I prefer.....
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no i dont mean pretend to like what she likes just try to make it obvious that you care about what she likes don't lie, cause its not like people in relationships like all of the same things anyway
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Good...just making sure we are on the same page! lol! :)
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lol!
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mhmm! :)
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Tap her and ask her what she is listening to then say hey I love that song (even if you don't). Then before you know it you guys will be having a conversation!(: Good luck!(:

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she is super shy I think. she never make eye contact at all. How should I approach her ?
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just start a conversation if you end up hating her, then at least you found out but if it works out, then aren't you glad you tried?
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