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I told my crush I liked them. What's the next step?

I told him around a day ago what should I do now?
P.S. We're both guys....

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well.. I guess that depends on how they reacted right? If he seemed OK with it you may want to try asking him out on date or two or just to hang out together. If he seemed bothered by it or reacted negatively it's best to back off.

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He seemed pretty ok with it and not very awkward today during class. So maybe I will. :) Thank you!
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You're welcome and good luck ^.^
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Go out

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I think if he responded in a positive manner that you should ask him if he feels the same for you. If he does, then you should really get to know him good and become really good friends with him. From there you should start to go on little dates or hang out sometime.

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Is he also gay/bi?

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I don't know. I'm pansexual so I don't really know if he's Gay/bi/pan :P
I hope he is though. ><
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Well you definitely should find out xD
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Haha yeah pretty important. :P
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If he had a good reaction to it then I think maybe let it sink in for another day or two, then ask him on a date [: If he reacted uncomfortably then it's probably best to keep quiet about it

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Follow your heart and don't let anyone tease you! (I like this guy and everyone thinks that we like each other so I just don't react then they don't find it amusing anymore, so they stop! :) )

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It's ok I don't have to worry about bullying. They all tell me the same thing. :P thank you!
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Good! Glad I could help! :)
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Thanks!
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Your welcome! :) how old are you?
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Um young? I don't really like telling people over the internet. :P I hope you don't mind.
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It's ok...just thought it would be a little easier to help if I knew...but it's ok don't worry bout it! :)
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No I understand. Thanks for understanding. I'm a young'un though :)
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k sorry I haven't written back...having problems with my computer
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It's ok. :)
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Have you heard his response? If you have then be polite to what he has said. No matter what always be the better person. If he accepts, then ask him out on a date. Don't overwhelm him though and be yourself!

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Yeah I heard his response he reacted in a positive way. Although only saying "Ok Yeah." His voice was positive. Thank you! :)
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The next step is to know if they feel the same way

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Try to start getting to know him better. And maybe ask him on a date. :3

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