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Is asking someone to be there for you too much?

I just want someone to be there for me but I feel like i'm asking to much :(

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I don't think asking someone to be there for you is too much. If the chances of them not being there for you, they will always support you.

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no..........every body needs some body..........

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I need someone one and no one is there :(
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i am here if you need a friend....
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I just need someone that will understand me.
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k.............i am here whats the problem...
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I feel like since my grandpa passed away when I was five i'm never good enough I push people away even if they say they care I feel like it's just a lie. I don't want people to feel sorry for me but I hide my pain with a fake smile. I cry almost every single day asking myself why do I even stay.
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it ok for people to be sorry for you.......and its also ok to hide your pain but its best to talk about it.........
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I try to talk about it and I just end up in tears.
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dont worry........lets talk about it..........
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do you have a email? I really don't want to talk about it on here
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its marisanaipaul@ymail.com whats yours.......
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lets talk tomarrow my mom is calling me......tomarrow i promise k..........bye tomarrow.........
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bye
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hey.. ready to talk......
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yes
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If they are close friend,relative, or something of that sort, it is never too much to ask for the companionship of someone.
You aren't guaranteed a "Yes" or "No" answer, but that doesn't mean you can't ask.

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we all need somebody, and sometimes it's a specific one that we need in order to survive. but that somebody may not always be there for you. no it's not too much to ask, but sometimes girl, u gotta keep your head up, smile, and make it in this world. :)
(this reminded me of my profile LOL xD)

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Nope not at all

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No, being there for each other is a MUST in real friendships, NO MATTER WHAT. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but if your friends do not want to be there for you, you might want to invest in some new ones:/

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welcome:) I know I've had problem like this, which is why my amount of friends has gone from tons of aquatints to a small amount (about 5) of really close friends. Life got so much better once I realized who was there for me and who was not.
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It's so hard :(
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Yeah, it is, but it gets better, I promise! I was almost suspended from school from one of my so-called-friends spreading rumors about me because she was offended that I think drugs are bad. That was when I lost about half of my friends since they thought all the rumors were true. I know my problem was pretty major, and I hope nothing like that happens to you, but just think about who would be there for you if something bad happen to you (pregnancy, metal illness, surgery, etc.) and then only keep those people in your life.
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but if you ever need to talk, i'm here:) what happen that made you ask this question?
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You can email me if you have a email I don't like telling every one
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ok:) what's your email? mine is gennaowen@gmail.com
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No

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Nope when they need you you should be there for them.

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No, none at all having somebody there for you and you being there for them is what makes you two come closer together the bond of friendship grows tight and stronger between you two. And don't listen to whoever says it isn't good because if somebody is telling you that ignore them....

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no i can be there for you

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thanks
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your welcome
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:) mad my day when I seen this.
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