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Me and my boyfriend have been fighting for the past couple nights. He's been saying that I'm over reacting! Here's the story.... on Tuesday night I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to hang out. He said he couldn't because it was family night then I realize he went to the movies with 3 girls from my school and they posted it on Instagram saying "Cuddling, Love them". Should I be upset? Is this normal?:/

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Red flags everywhere.
1. He lies to you about it being "family night".
2. YOU catch him in the lie.
3. Other girls are involved.

I'd be having a huge talk with him. You're NOT over reacting. You have every right to be upset.

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Dang, he's cheating AND lying to you. I Know many girls that would be furious. Yes you should be upset.

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if I was you I would have dumped my boyfriend. that is not cool. yes you shouldbe upset he shouldnt do that! he is probably cheating with one of them id dump him if i was you.. he is saying you're overreacting from HIM going to the movies with THREE girls? and he lied. thats seriously messed up. ugh this makes me mad and its not even my boyfriend lol

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He obviously was cheating.

He lied about cheating.

He throws the blame on you.

Please, break up with him.

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Lets just say if I was you it wouldn't last a second after I found that out . It sounds to me like he's a bit of a jerk that lies to your face and then goes and hangs out with some other girls . That to me would be a slap in the face. He is not worth your time and your worth more than he deserves . Your a nice girl I can tell because even after he hurt you you are considering feelings . A lot of girls I know would have not even told him its over in person they would just send him a text saying I'm done and forget about him . I suggest you move on you can do better than him trust me . Me personally I have been hurt and it's not fun and it hurts to move on , but you can do it trust me and when you do you will feel so much better . don't let him get the last word he doesn't deserve it . If I was in your shoes I would tell him to please leave me alone . don't talk to me , don't text me. Good luck I'm sorry about your situation .

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Your welcome hope you feel better . Forget about that jerk .
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yes you have every right to be upset.

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Leave him! Leave him now. I was in a relationship for a year that the guy lied to me about everything and he cheated on me. I left him because he cheated on me and now he has no problem being with another girl. The same girl he cheated on me with. It will hurt your feelings at first, but just move on. :) it will be okay(: best advice, start talking to another guy that you think is cute and, the memories from him won't fade, but he will. :)

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Dump this dude! I would never do that if I was your boyfriend! Ever! That's messed up!! You are a beautiful girl! (Btw)

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kick him in the nuts.....

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well i would make sure he is lieing ( i think he is) but if u acuse him of cheating and he isnt it could be bad

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