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If a guy says "we should go our separate ways" yet keeps messaging you, what does that mean?

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Sounds like he's 12
Or a bit unstable..
Move on before things get weird

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It means that he still feels something for you. Saying you go separate ways meant that you should not be together again and now that he keeps messaging you is like he likes you. It's good you approach him and ask him what exactly he wants from you.

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my experience is he is keeping u around till something better comes along.

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he dont want to date u, but wants to be friends. if u no wut i mean

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That could mean a lot of things in my opinion. First thing that comes to my mind is he broke up with you, but still wants you around if he can't find anyone else.

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you obviously have a hold on him in some way......
because he keeps contact. or he could just wanna c how you react/stand with the situation and go from there. you need to decide if its worth it. he doesn't sound very mature. just saying.... guys who play with ur mind are bad business girl. livin is learning though so best of luck to ya!

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He obviously doesn't think of you in a romantic sense any longer, yet doesn't want to end a potentially decent relationship. That would be up to you. If you still have feelings for him, in a more than a "friends" aspect, be honest and tell him that. Sometimes it's better to part ways and move on. You sound like you might still be feeling more for him, than he does for you. You are the only one who can answer hat. There is nothing wrong, however, in still being a good friend and nothing more.

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It sounds like he doesn't want you to think he abandoned you. It seems like he still wants to be friends.

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He bored, doesn't have anything better to do, or he's confused.

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It depends on what the messages say. Are they friend messages or romantic ones?

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Hard to explain. He will get very jealous over anything. If I go to a friends, he gets mad at me. He wants to Skype a lot too. He tells me that he's done but then msgs me later. He's confusing
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In my opinion, you'd be better off to move on. Tell him you agree that it's time to end things. He'll probably try to dissuade you, but he's too fickle. Forget him, you deserve better, don't you?
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