I'm with Neanderthal on this one -- my identity. To do so would be robbing her of whatever attracted her in the first place, as incomprehensible as that may be, and THAT would probably doom any relationship.
Actually Daizy said that what she wanted from me was my initial. Her maiden name was near the end of the alphabet and she wanted to move closer to the front of any alphabetical queues. I'm just lucky there were no Aaronsons, Abbotts or Actons around when I proposed.
I would never give up my pets,bellydancing,piercings, tats,individuality, independence, sense of humor,morals, convictions, hobbies,friends or likes. Loving someone means they love unique things about you, they don't ask you to give anything up.