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Can best friends become boyfriend and girlfriend?

hmm ok. i met girl and we became friends. she has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is my friend.but they broke up.. i always chat with this girl on Facebook then i ask her why did they broke up..and she tell me everything..we became close friend..and one day we play a game (i ask u whatever i like and u ask me whatever u like) then she ask me this ''can u be my best friend'' then i said yes...and we became best friend actually she's my first girl best friend...im always there for her...but one day i started to like her but i couldn't tell her my feelings but i'm scared i might lose her...i dont know what to do.......someone help me please???

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Yep. It's been known to happen. In fact, isn't that the premise for 90% of teen drama movies.

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These things happen in everyday life. if she really is your friend she will encourage how you really feel about her. its not guarenteed that she will like you back.but like i said,if she really is your friend,you telling her how you feel wont tear you guys apart.it will most likey bring you two closer together;)

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You like her, she likes you, I fail to see the problem

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bradahh

My fiance is my best friend.

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of course

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I've done this before. To be honest I've done it today, right now!!! But we broke up two weeks later. Got back together and broke up again. She broke up with me yesterday and now I'm not sure if I want to be just friends or what but... Yeah friends can be bf and gf

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obvs

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Yes! Thats Kinda How Me And My Boyfriend Started Like First Wr Were Friends Because He Dated My Friend they Broke Up Then We Became Really Close and He Asked Me Out An Swear Best Relationship Ever.Hes My Bestfriend.And My Boyfriend

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Yeaa

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FunnyLittleFrog

Honestly it sounds like she likes you already. I don't think she meant best girl friends, something else.

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Definitely , i wish me and my best friend got together . At first everything was cool but then i started catching feelings . But dont worry about wat will happen after u break up it will be fine

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Absolutely. My boyfriend is my best friend. :)

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definitely, go for it. If you are afraid of losing her, then make the move that will make you able to keep her.

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The most successful relationships are those when the people involved are friends first. Best wishes.

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ask but dont take it too far

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Yes you can chrispogi...but if you two have been friends for a very long time just know that if by any chance you guys do break up *not wishing you any bad luck or anything* your relationship will never be the same again...but also remember we different people what i say may not be exactly as i may happen...but like me i was friends with this 1 guy and lets just say something happened and i tried to show him that you know what after what he done i still like him as a friend and he decided not to talk to me...so in what ever decision you take GOOD LUCK!!!

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Yes it shouldn't feel weird if you guys have been friends for a long time.

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You might lose her telling her or not telling her, so it would be best to tell her

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i was in ac Relationships and it was great and im still with him

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yes happens all the time and the relationship is more trusting that way because you had known that person all the time......its a way of life........

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well yes you can but if you guys break up than it might ruin ya'lls friendship... js..

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Just be her friend and leave it at that

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i don't if can stay like that forever.
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If you truly have feelings for her then you should tell her how you feel i'm sure she'll understand.

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yeah .IN FACT IM DATING MINES RIGHT NOW. weve been friends since grade 4

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me & my boyfriend were friends for 2 years, and now we are dating. we have beem dating happily 3 months so far! go for it! its amazing! You 2 obviously are so close already so why not become closer! you'll be thankful in the end!. Just try it out and see where it goes!!

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I feel the same with my best friend
I already told him what I feel and although I think he now changed his mind at the time he did not feel the same but he was super cool about it
not move away or anything ... just made ??us closer
however there are BIG problems but that's because I'm me
so.......go for it

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of course! i dated my best friend, Cohen a few months ago. the only problem is the end. its harder. the thing about relationships is, every day, one person is falling more and more in love, while the other is falling out of it. a a break up could ruin a friendship. im in that issue right now...:(

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