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What is the easiest way for me try to get over somebody who has recently passed away? i need help. :(

ok one of my friends passed away on april 1st & i need help moving on from this tragedy, anybody have advice?

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im so sorry to hear that:'( ...i hope that your alright now:) just don't make that the major thing that stops you from going on in life ..and try to relax and think of all the great times you had together and what you guys did ,and talk about your friend with others :) just remebr that no matter what happens in your life stay strong and fight it because thats what builds up your strength!:)

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ok thanx.
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anytime..im glad to help:)
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Think about all the things you did. All of which must be good, or else it'll be depressing. Do all the things he/she loved to do. Then pray about it. Ask God to tell him/her that you love her and ask God to insure her safety

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ok i will thanks. that answer made me cry.
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i think thats what i needed to hear today.
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i really miss him. :(
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it's okay to cry. If I were in your place, I would cry too. You can talk to me whenever. I'm glad I could help some way
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yeah but i promised his mom i wouldnt.
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People think that crying is a sign of weakness, but it is a sign of strength.
You may never overcome your sadness, but it will get easier over time.
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yeah tell me about it ppl call me a wuss because i cried 4 weeks after he died & it hurts. :'(
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Oh gosh. Well thous people didn't go thru what u went thru.
Please don't listen to them.
Crying is the best way to release stress. sometimes if you dont cry, all of your hurt/anger ECT is getting all bottled inside of you and eventually you will explode and that's not good.
Finding/having friends who love you for who u are and friends who let you cry on their shoulder are true friends.
i think everyone needs more of them.
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Oh, please read this, it might help you a lot:

http://elliesway.org/thoughts/?gclid=CIf6zei5wboCFYNxOgodnzEAsg
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i read it & it was sad but the help & inspiration was beautiful.
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Try to remember all the good memories you have of your friend. Maybe get together with other mutual friends and share the happy memories. Everyone grieves differently but it always takes some time. Know that your friend would want you to go on and be happy and that someday you will feel happy again.

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thanks. i promised i wasnt gonna cry for his moms sake but now im crying. :(
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For me, I'm a Christian, so I know that God is always there fore me and He has a plan. Anything and everything that is happening and will happen is all part of God's plan.
I'm not sure if you are a Christian or not but if you are not, I don't know because I am one... so...I'm so sorry if you have lost someone.
I will pray for you :'(

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i am thanx!
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Oh you are? Oh... well that makes things easier.
If you believe in everything in the bible then I hope what I said helps.
Hey gurl, God has it in his hands. Don't worry, anything that happens is happening for a reason.
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i miss him soooo bad. :'(
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I'm so sorry. I'm sure you do, all anyone can do right now is pray for you.
Hey maybe u could try doing something that will get your mind of him.
Oh you could write to God in a journal about your feelings and try to hand them over to God:
New Living Translation:
Psalm 55:22
Give your burdens to the LORD, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall.
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ok i will. thanx!
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No problem :'/
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How are you??
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i'm good now, but sometimes i just start 2 think about him & i want 2 burst into tears.
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Yeah, I understand that :(
Its ok to cry.
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