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What should I do?

hes cheated on me 3 times. when I ask him not to talk to other girls he says "it's hard not to" i threaten that ill talk to other guys but he says he wouldn't care because he "trusts me." So then I told him if he talks to girls ill dump him then he said he will stop talking to girls except for this one girl I asked him why he wouldnt stop talking to her and her said because she needs him for advise and he asks her for advise? I don't understand why he just doesnt come to me for advise.. What do you think I should do?

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You should have dumped him the first time he cheated.... -___-

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I totally agree
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True!!
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The best thing to do would be to talk things over with him and talk about your insecurities. It would also be best to give some space and understand that he might be comfortable talking to other people about certain issues.

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he already cheated on you three times. ur clearly the one that is holding this relationship together. if he cared enough he would stop even if "it's hard not to". dump him. u deserve someone better. :)

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If you're so worried, that he can't even TALK to other girls ... you're not ready for a real relationship. Let him go.

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You should've dumped him two cheats ago.

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agreed. xD
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*facepalm*


I often wonder what goes though people's minds...
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LOL xD
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You should break up with him. The odds of this relationship working where both of you are happy look slim. You clearly don't trust him anymore.

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Stay away from him, he's not worth it

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Dam chic! What you should do is let it and I do say it! Go! You have to respect your self and be real good look girl?

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Well- There ya go, then! This obviously is the answer.....
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Ya u have a clear mind chica! Do the right thing ? I know it's hard but the out come is for the best! Good luck bd!
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If you still have strong feeling for him give him a chance. I know its been three times but guys are stupid and do stupid things. If he isn't worth set him off. If he's asking another girl for advice he probably needs advice for you and doesn't know to talk to you about it so he needs other feminine advice...

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You need to work on your insecurity issues and learn how not to be so clingy. Also, why do you think you have the only worth while advice? The world would be a pretty small place with only you in it.

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Time to let go!

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First of all, you cannot expect or ask a person not to talk to other people. It is a saying in my country, if someone wants to cheat on you it will do it with you in the same bed! Either you are too jealous and you pressing him is just a game for him, either he doesn't
want to be with you anymore. Try to be indifferent too for a while and see his reaction. If someone wants to be with you, then that's it. If not, move on.

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If you really want to shake him up. Keep talking to other guys. He has taken you for granted. However, stay loyal and faithful. Pretend to dissapear for a few days. Lose contact with him. Not just one day of being MIA. Just tell him you need a break or some space, dont break up with him but dont talk to him for a week or more. Date other guys, but dont gave sex with them. Let him contact you but dont tell him what your doing. Like if he calls you, always end the convo first. If he ask what your doing, just tell him you gotta go and you have plans. Dont even answer his phone calls right away. make him wait a day. texting make him wait 12 hours before you reply to his text. email and facebook, give atleast 24 hrs. Even though men say they hate drama and playing games...that is a lie when they adtually do. See right now he knows he has you wrapped around your pinky and you arent going anywhere, your are not a CHALLENGE to him anymore and you will always be there for him, is the reason why he always cheats on you. Lastly, is he a bad boy? If he is he always will be and run far away from as fast as you can especially if you want a longterm reltionship with a man who repsects you and who wont cheat on you.

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