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So, I'm being picked on.. STILL. Please help me get them to stop!

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Voglir

stand up for yourself I was picked on in school until I fought back I was attacked with hockey sticks and lacrosse sticke head smashed into solid wood lockers and beaten in the change room until I stood up for myself took the one kids hockey stick and broke it over his face

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just don't off yourself like a weakling
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never show weakness and always stick up for yourself
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I've tried, some kid pulled I knife and I broke his jaw, it's the fact that they have got bigger groups, they don't just do 1 on 1's, they try jumpin me!
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offing yourself doesn't always mean that the person doing it is a weakling.there are reasons people take that road that we may be unaware of.
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learn some techniques in fighting if you haven't already. also, try hiding a knife yourself for self-defense. sometimes, people might bring guns depending on how bad the situation is.
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I've been down both roads
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Gosh that's horrible. can't either of you guys just tell someone about this. Like police?
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personally, i like violence because without it, i would not have made it though middle school. Also, I am capable of defending myself against people like bullies without he help of adults(which they would be my last resort). From personal experience, physical force has passed judgement against verbal force when dealing with bullies. then again, I'm not always right.
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offing yourself means you're weak whoever says otherwise is also weak. if they're pulling knives on you they either know how to use them or they're bluffing if you can't handle it talk to the pigs give names adresses heights weights whether those punks have red hair or yellow hair otherwise you'll be desd by 2014 good luck kiddo
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haha...well, unlike you guys, i would be a weakling :)
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I was never afraid to get a little bloody
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i had never actually bring weapons to school all that much. i know the types of moves to beat up people, and i do. in fact, people are now afraid of me for that. though im not really a "good" figure to my teachers. but hey, i still get good grades.
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depends.. what are you getting picked on for? Well it doesnt matter I know that 2 negatives dont make a positive, but a negative times a negative makes a positive so what you need to do is get some other guys on your side and do the same thing to them... There is this kid at my school and he has a fake leg and i got tired of seeing these jocks trip him and makes his stuff go every where so one day I tripped him... he broke his nose... it was HILARIOUS! and a teacher watched me do it... he hasnt picked on him since and the jock doesnt mess with any of my friends cuz he knows that i dont stand for. you have to let them know that.. if your scared dont show it... good luck..

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I don't know! They just keep pushing me, calling me names.
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like what kind of names?
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16tsmith it dont matter it aint cool
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bully the bully: threats that work on other people usually work on bullies. I like to threatening people all the time so they won't bully me. once, i kept one of my threats and punched the bully in the face. he never bullied me again.
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If you make a "threat" call it a promise and you have to follow through or else that proves that you are weak.
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i know. but i do keep my threats real, at least most of the time. the times i don't, is that when i already threaten them once and kept that promise. that is also why i am mostly not bullied anymore.
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Who ever is picking on you is craving attention. Completely ignore every thing that they say no matter how bad or mean and they will eventually stop.

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yea ignoring a bully is going to stop him from pushing you around
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just try your best to stick up for yourself as much as you can. try to make other friends that can beat them up (I mean if they are big).. fight them. challenge them.

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Just ignore them or kick them in the "hacky sacks" and run. Try ignoring first, if that doesn't work make your own laws and rules up! ...don't let anybody walk on you!!!!

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If you are getting picked on( and refuse to tell an adult) then you should fight back, but don't be hateful. Don't stoop to their level. Be better then them.

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ibepwning

Be assertive.

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Stand up for yourself sock that bastard in the.face

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Sorry, but unless you want too blend there's really no way too avoid it, just try too ignore it or pretend you find it funny, sometimes just telling them you don't like it works.

If this isn't verbal or basic pushing down on your values or character(physical bullying)

I suggest hanging out with people or in larger groups, try too talk too an adult. Don't try too pay them back but try too prevent it.

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were you ever physically bullied in school?
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physically no if this person was talking about physical bullying I would change my answer.
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All I can say is defend yourself I too am bullied but I have learned to not let it bother me.

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physical force is better then verbal force. at my school, one time is enough for the bully. if that doesn't work, try ganging up against he/her. for me, it works. i don't know about how other schools like the thought of physical violence.

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If you need to defend yourself.. Do it, by all means necessary

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buddy,Stand up for yourself, and fight back. If they push you, then punch them, show them that you mean business, and you have a total disregard for their well being. Until you show them that you aren't afraid to fight, they will keep making you the target. If you want, I can even give you a few tips on how to fight.

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I know how to fight, I've broken a kids jaw. It's just I broke my hand right beside the growth plate, so it's healed already but weak, so I have to be careful!
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so your answer is no, you don't know how to fight. If you knew how to fight, you wouldn't have broken the hand. You know how to throw your fists around and hit something, simultaneously causing damage to yourself. I mean no offence here, just noting the facts. So I'll give you some tips. Considering I can beat black belts and street "thugs" in the area around the neighborhood with no problem, I think i'm qualified.

First lesson, how to make a fist: Curl knuckles, rest the tips of your fingers loosely around the midpoint of your palm, tuck your thumb loosely around your forefinger, so the bottom part of your thumbs mid-section, is resting on top of your forefinger's second joint (the one closest to the fingertip.). If you keep it slightly loose, and not clenched, it will prevent you from breaking your hand

Second: Utilize kicks, a kick to the upper thigh can be devastating, even a seasoned muay thai fighter can't take more than a few good kicks to the nerve running down the leg, find it with your fingers, and remember where it is so you can target it in a fight

third: your key targets to win, are
Side of neck: use a chop to get this, the shoulder and jaw present an excellent funnel for your hand here

Side of chin: knockout shot

Family jewels: only use as a last resort, this is a really mean move, but a kick to the sack works incredibly well

Hamstring: kick the hamstring nerve, it paralyzes the leg for five minutes and results in excruciating pain

Solar Plexus: Accessible via elbow strikes, or a really good solid punch, this will knock the wind out of them long enough to deliver a finisher like a knee or elbow to the face.

Kidneys and liver: excellent target for either a punch or a kick, if you kick it though, make sure you regain your balance quickly though, as a kick can leave you wide open

Bicep: sounds like a dumb place to target, but there is a nerve right below the bicep on your arm that will paralyze the arm and make it feel like you just did fifty dumbbell curls if you're hit there.



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throat: warning, this can be a kill shot if done with a fist, instead, use a two finger knuckle strike, and aim for the hollow, they won't be able to attack for at least three minutes, this is a fight ender.
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these are some basic targets, start stringing together some combinations of punches and target the face along with these, and you'll be on your way to winning where it counts in no time. Needless to say, if you actually fight using stuff like this, you won't be getting bullied for very long, because they'll figure out that it isn't worth it.
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Ignore them

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I was never picked on because I was very nice and very kindf and I had Jesus. Even if it was just the tipof the little finger, but I still had Jesus. So, every time someone would pick on me, others would tell him to stop. Other times, I just had to look at them and they stopped. But if I had known back then what I know now, I wouldve been a whole lot more into Jesus. And I wouldve cared about those who didnt liked me and specially for their souls. I wouldve talked to them about God. I know, when one does things right, the beggining s hard because people dont like others loving them and being like brothers, specially when its someone who doesnt like you. So, once it begins, they try resisting it. Then, eventually, they give up, run away or take drastic measures, but drastic measures is when one doesnt have Jesus. Andf I dont mean carry a cross, that wont help. I mean knowing Jesus personally. Gby.

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I don't honestly believe..:/
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In god.
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What do you have to loose by believing?...
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What Bryan said. And you gotta stick up for yourself bro. Just don't take it tell them to leave you alone and ignore them even tell someone if you have to.

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Have you talked to an adult about this? You should def tell a trusted grown up like your parents. If its brutally bad take it to the police.

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