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Do I still have a chance to get him back? Help!

He pursuits me first, but he is also the one who broke up with me. He really liked me, but I never took him serious until he was gone. He said he could not find a contact between us, but I know that is just because I was very distant to him.
I think I made him very disappointed. I never realize I actually care about him until he was gone.
Anyway, he acted kind of weird after the first week we broke up. I feel he was avoiding me somehow. Then, a month later, I texted him that I miss him when I was very drunk. I was very embarrassed the next day, so I said sorry to him. However, he was super nice about it. He told me don't worry, and asked me to go to a party. I went to the party. I feel he was trying to get my attention but I was too embarrassed to talk to him though.
It seemed like he was interested again. However, I saw he yesterday during the dinner, I feel he start avoiding me again... It is like we say hi when we see each other, but I feel he is distant. (I guess I acted very distant too?)
Anyway, I want him back, but I have no idea what he is thinking. Please help me.

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He is trying his best to get you back, and sounds like a really nice guy. Since you said that you first started being distant to him, YOU ask him out this time. If he says, no, leave him alone and ask a bit later, he may not be in a good mood at the time. Don't be too clingy, but at the same time don't pretend it never happened. When you two get together (alone, of course), kiss him. It will be the sweetest moment ever <3 !! Also, explain your side of the story to him and he will understand. Good luck :)

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You are so sweet! I accept your advice. :)
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thank you ^.^
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I would ask what he is thinking and just tell him that u like and care for him very much and tell him what you feel and ask if he feels anything or if you can get a second chance

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Take a chance and go for it

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Tell him this, not us.
If he cares about you, he'll give you a second chance.

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Tell him how you feel and just try talking to him again but make sure that this is really what you want and if he doesn't want anything from you anymore than just accept it and walk away from it and move on if I were you I would just move on :/

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KittySusca

I think this person and you confuse each other.I would find another person,who does not confuse you,and does not act distant.Acting distant is a way to manipulate somebody sensitive.He knows hes doing it.Find someone who gives you joy,instead of all this mental arithmetic.

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Sounds like the only thing you can do at this point is wait to see if he comes back. Remember the old saying if you love something and set it free, if it comes back it is yours forever if it doesn't it never really was. True, true, true! Been there done that I speak from experience, he knows your number, if he misses you he will call!

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Talk to him first, to see how he really feels about you. If he still likes you, then go for it.

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