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I think I love him, and I'm not sure if he likes me back.

Every time I'm not caught thinking of my schoolwork, I start spacing out, and my mind always ends up on him, and I have to remind myself that he probably doesn't like me. Once, I even had this dream, a wonderful dream, that my friend told me (after I told her who I liked) that he had liked me the whole time I liked him. Does this dream mean anything? He seems really outgoing, friendly, and sweet, but whenever he starts talking to me, it's just more serious. It may be he has trouble thinking of what to say, but I'm not sure. He always makes and holds eye contact for a long time when talking. When we sat together in school, we disrupted class together almost everyday, and that was great, but we moved seats, and he hardly even talks to me anymore. Every once in a while I may catch him looking at me, but I'm just not sure. I want us to be bf/gf and I don't really know how to make that happen. If not, he seems like a really cool person, and I'd like to get to know him more anyways. How do I get to know him better without it seeming like all I want to do is spend time with him? (I also want to ask for his number, but every time I think about it, I freak out.)

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For beginners. I would say talk about school first and if you feel like he like talking to you talk a little personal (but not too deeply personal), and after that talk about your guys future like ("what would you do if we were the last one on earth?" Or somewhere around that) and after that ask him out. Take your time but not that long or you will end up in the place called "friend-zone". Good luck.

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You just have a huge crush on him. I dont think you love him.

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I've also had this crush for a little over 2 years, so I don't quite know what to think of that either...
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Tell him. What could happen?
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so you don't know for sure that he doesn't like you, you just assume that. Girl, you should talk to him more often, from what you said it sounds like he likes you.
You're never gonna get anywhere if you don't do anything. go for it. Be yourself bcz you're awesome. Everyone is XD

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It would be better to start off by befriending him. Find out his areas of interest and start conversations on interesting topics. Once this is done you will know for sure whether he likes you back and the two of you can develop a relationship.

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