First of all, she isn't making you feel insecure. You're doing that all by yourself. Since she isn't causing it, she can't make it stop. Only you can.
Secondly, if shes pretty now, she was pretty when she picked you. She didn't decide to pair up with you because she's pretty, she did it because there's a whole lot to like about you. Most likely, it's the attention you gave her, the kind things you said and did, the way you made her feel important. She probably admires certain qualities about you, too. Most notably, your confidence.
Thirdly, no woman ever left any man because she realized she was too pretty to be with him. (anyway, no woman who was worth being around). Women leave because they don't feel special anymore, they don't feel interesting or important anymore. They don't feel valued anymore. You made her feel that way, so she got with you. If you quit making her feel that way, it leaves the door open for others to do it for you.
Rather than put your time and energy into warding off every numbskull who can recognize a pretty face, put it into making your girl feel like a million bucks. If she knows you love her and you make her feel good, she'll walk over a hundred guys to get to you.
Insecurity is a feeling that can also be associated with defense mechanism. Your girlfriend is pretty, and you feel insecure because you feel that other guys like her and she might be attracted to them. It is a normal feeling for a regular guy like you to feel insecure having a pretty girlfriend; you don't have to worry, she gave you her heart.
Damn, I'm going through the same thing. I was so confident to the point that I would be cocky. But now that I'm with my girlfriend, I feel so insecure about myself and I'm paranoid that some other guy might just come and talk her out of what we have.
I'm really pretty also! So with that being said I can answer ur question easy, all pretty girls r insecure. So we like to make other people feel insecure to bring our security level up. Remedy, be super confident in urself, never act jealous, we really feed of of jealous men, makes us feel more secure. Treat her really good but don't be a push over. She will eventually love u equally and that should stop ur insecurities.
know you must be doing something right if she is with you. and if your not careful you will push her away... just be yourself it is that simple.. im a girl and we date you for you and we think your just great.
Ah, what a gift youth is! With all insecurity, pretty, cool, .... Look my friend, you'll realize very soon that you're wasting a whole lot of energy in a wrong way. First of all, you need to find out if you trust your girlfriend or not. If you don't, why? If you do, then you have to work on yourself to make sure you're nit going to be all over her and give her some space. In most cases, honesty and communication is the answer to our problems. Try to communicate with her and be honest. Take care!
Just think of it this way, if she wasn't pretty noone would look at her. Since she's pretty who cares if ppl look as long as they dont touch. Have pride in yourself that at the end of the day she's your girl and your her man.
I feel what u mean buddy. All I can say is this it maybe blunt but don't live life with no insecurities which is basically a fear. If she is going to do something other than have a faithful monogamous relationship with you. She is going to do it no matter what u do or don't do. So why worry if she is gonna do it? That's how I feel and I'm married dude. If she do mess up cry for a few days n chuck up the deuces it's plenty of woman that know how to treat men out here dog. Don't grow grey hair over it. You'll be ok tho. Stay blessed