11 months ago
Last edited at 1:13AM on 4/6/2013
You should not take people's judgement to heart they are words and that's all they are just words . I think it's bad to be overly judgmental or to hard on yourself . You know who you are to some degree. Don't let people's judgement keep you from being you .In all honesty I'm still finding myself as a person things just take time that's life it's a journey and you don't have all of the answers . I like who I am , but there's still room for improvement and still need to grow emotionally and mentally .
In my opinion, neither. The actual thing lies somewhere in between. Analysis of yourself by you and by others, compare them, and then try to from opinions. And you know about yourself better then anyone else, so your opinion about yourself would definitely have more weightage.