I'm not understanding my boyfriend right now! please help!
okay,it's kinda a long story so please bare with me and read the whole thing!
alright so my friend Daniela had a crush on my boyfriend before me and him got to together and I still think she still has a crush on him because they always say rude things and cuss to each other as a way of "playing around" . The thing is, is that my friend Daniela told me a few days ago that I should dump him , when I asked why she said because he's always agreeing with me when I call him gay or a b**** , and I said okay he always does that all the time as sarcasm, then she said that when she asked him why he was calling himself gay when he has a girlfriend , she said that he apparently said "what girlfriend?" .... the thing is, is that I kinda had a feeling from Daniela that she was lying to me so I can dump because she still has a crush on him.. then again, IF she's telling the truth, why would my boyfriend say that? I mean we had a mishap and thought we were broken up and bla blah blah and he apologized and everything was good, I know we aren't broken up because then he would've said he wanted to break up, but why would he kid about something like that? I'm just not sure if it's true or not but I really do believe that my friend still has a crush on him... what do I do? I love my boyfriend very much and u do kinda have a problem where I can't have a physical relationship with him because I'm always scared to hug him or anything like that so I'm afraid that he's getting bored of me or something ... but I really really love him and I just don't understand why my friend is acting like this anduf she is telling the truth, I dont know why boyfriend is acting like this as well... please help!