You need to have the baby if you are ready. However, it is good to make him understand how you feel about the issue and also in relation to your studies. You can still have the baby and continue with your studies or opt to finish school first.
Is he going to school? If you're smart enough to be in medical school, you're smart enough to know the answer to your own question. Stay on the birth control. Don't toss medical school down the toilet because your boyfriend wants you under his control. Having a baby is NOT something you to FOR your boyfriend. You do it for you, when YOU are ready. Use your smarts and stay on track with medical school.
Tell that you can have a baby with him....(in ten years) just kidding tell him that you love him but your not ready to have a baby. Hopefully he understands if not he's it worth your time. I feel like ether ways he's gonna dump you so... Yeah
Sounds like a lot of work to me. Here is an idea, graduate from med school get lots of money then love boyfriend sooooo much and have baby. Its known as a 'win win' situation. people get to call you 'Doctor' and then you can also buy boyfriend a Ferrari to make up for the long wait ... I'll have mine in red.. Revlon red ..... think twice....;-p
A smart and intelligent woman would stay in school and say goodbye and move on.... you'll have fun in school and meet a lot of people...and don't have a baby until you have your degree... be a smart and intelligent woman.
Wow, you're boyfriend does not sound like a good guy. He doesn't understand what you're going through and how busy you are with school. If he tells you to have a baby of he'll leave you, then he's extremely selfish and not at all worth it. Education is more important than starting a family when you don't want to. Leave him, don't worry you won't regret it.
If he really loves you, he will support your decision to postpone children until you have finished your education. If he puts himself and his desires above you, then you have your answer I would think. Don't you?
You need to finish your schooling and get a job in your field of medical training First! For him to threaten to leave you if you do not get pregnant is not only pathetic but Very controlling! Why would you even consider meeting his Demands? That is exactly what they are. What will his next demand be??? He is a Control freak, that in short should be a Huge Red Flag!