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Voglir

how long should you let yourself heal before you get back out there?

21 year old guy waited until I loved someone to drop the vCard.. she used me snd dumped me pretty shook up but I always recover quick. I was so wrecked I racked up $1500 on credit in two days on beer and tequila quit drinking and healing quick

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Consider this: You were in Love with "A perception" of what you hoped would be a lasting relationship. It's a good thing you recognized the "truth" and the lack of character of this individual as soon as you did.
Now get to work! consider this the $1500 life lesson!

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Voglir
wasn't just the $1500 I spent a total of sbout $3000 in a week
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1-2weeks

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How long were you with this lady? I can answer after :)

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long enough to fall in love
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It will take a while to heal for sure, but being irrational is not part of healing. Its okay to think of her, be jealous. But dont go crazy. Love can be difficult :)
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Sometimes it take a year to heal if you were veryy much in love with that person.

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Supposively it is 6 months for every year you two were together. I don't know if its true. Sorry you are hurting right now.

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About hmm 5 minutes then move on. Honestly it really depends on you man everyone is different you shouldn't let your breakup effect your daily life she was just a girl . Just give yourself some time just don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself that will only make you more sad . Don't drink your problems away either . cheer up man there's more girls out there .

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