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well I'm kind of debating on my gender I'm a female who wants to be a male but I'm not sure it's right I get made fun of a lot for my look. can you give me advice?

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Well, as a guy I can PERFECTLY see why you'd want to be a male compared to being a female. Though, there are troves of things only a girl can enjoy and a man cannot. It is possible you might just be going through a phase and is experiencing the desire to experience the other side, if the grass really is greener.

Follow your heart, don't mind what people will say about you. You shouldn't be judged by anyone period, let alone by your "gender" preference for yourself or for who you want to be with.

Find yourself. BE YOURSELF. Everyone else is taken. At least by the end of it, if you weren't able to please other people, you were able to do so with yourself. Which is the more important part of it.

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You'll probley get made fun of :(

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But I get made fun of now
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It's completely okay for you to feel the way you do. You are entitled to look and feel however makes you comfortable inside as a person no matter what anyone thinks of you or whether they pass judgment on you for it. When it comes down to it, you are the only one who has to live in your own skin. You deserve to feel happy and content with yourself regardless of anyone's opinion of you. Do not let anyone ever make you feel less than a beautiful human being no matter what. You are you and being you is nothing to ever be ashamed of.

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Thanks agin your a really good help
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Thank you. :-) Your welcome. I'll be here anytime you ever need some help.
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Ok :)
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All I can tell you is be yourself. And just ignore the people who make fun of you they think it's cool and have nothing else to do. You are way stronger then those mean people. Don't let then bring you down. Good Luck :) <3

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Thanks a lot :)
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No problem :)
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Ok: be who you want would you rather be a girl or boy... And don't listen to other people who make fun of you, keep your head up high. If you think you would be better off as a guy then be one.. dont care about what other people think..Ok so which do you prefer... GIRL; make up, dresses, short shorts, hair, two coconuts and all that stuff.. GUY; messy hair (usually), jeans, shirts, a thing that hangs, sneaker and all....
Ok I don't know what gender you like so; (guy+guy=be a guy) (girl+girl=stay)
(Guy+girl=change, don't change)
PS: I support you on what ever you choose to do. and if your all ready getting made fun of do what you want

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Thanks that really help
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I hope it does in the long run.. And I hope you figure out soon what you want to do :)
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I agree with everyone on the be yourself. However, I think trying to change who you are is wrong. I can't think of any advantage to being male, we work hard too. If you feel that you must try to change your gender I will not stand in your way, but I think you should stay as you are.

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