You can't "make" anyone love you. You can doll yourself up so they are attracted to you, but that doesn't make it love. You should be yourself, and if it's meant to be, they'll fall in love with you as you will them.
Making someone actually love you is difficult. Heck, sometimes people think theyre in love when theyre not.. I dont know, flirt with them? And if they LIKE you, ask them out. Maybe eventually they will love you.
There isn't really a certain way to 'make' a boy love you. But you can certainly try and impress him I guess. Are yous friends? Or are you getting ready to make a first impression with him? Just be yourself. There is no point on making an amazing first impression if you aren't being yourself, because perhaps one day yous are finally together, you'll start letting your true self show through and he'll realize you lied to him. But good luck! <3
There was a question here a few months back asking about making a love potion. My facetious response was to learn how to make lasagna - the only love potion I know works. If you know how to make a good lasagna, a guy will love you forever. The axiom is "A way to a man's heart is through is stomach."
There is a grain of truth to that. It is not necessarily the food, but the act of being supportive. You have remember a relationship is a partnership. BOTH of you have to be supportive to the other.
You can use classic brain washing techniques to make someone fall in love with you. You can look up what those are but often involve isolation, guilt, fear, vitamin B12 deficiency, etc. Some of those methods may be considered immoral or illegal without consent.
accept yourself and be yourself and get to know or hang out more with this boy and try socialing more each day with him or seeing him you cant make him love you but you can start up to something so over time it can be love
You cannot "make" anyone love you -- it'd sure be nice if that was possible! It's best be yourself, be "real," be honest. Then, when somebody falls in love with you, they'll truly be in love with YOU -- who you really are, not someone you were pretending to be in order to "get a guy." ;-)
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You can't make someone love you. It doesn't work like that.You don't always find love at first site. If you like a guy get to know him be yourself a little flirty and maybe just start out as friends and see if there's something more and if not...you still got a good friend. Be yourself don't be fake and don't lie!
Love is given freely. You can't ever make someone love you. Try getting to know the person and see where the relationship goes. You may find a great friend that you want more than a boyfriend or lover.
I have the same problem and coming from experience of suffering ... you can become in many ways for boys to like you but in my opinion it isn't love if a "part" of the relationship is not sincere about herself is just the right guy if he loves the right version of yourself I hope it helped!
1 year ago
Last edited at 9:47PM on 4/13/2013
just be your self, u can make your self look like a total slut and get him to have sex but that's not love, if he doesnt like u than let bygones be bygones and forget about him. cause im sure ur perfect match will eventually come along and when it happens you will know it
You can not make a boy love/or like you.Be yourself he should like you for who you are. You should not have to change for anyone. If they like you then you would be able to tell.. and if the person doesn't like you then don't worry just forget about them there is no since in worrying about them.. you will find someone who cares about you instead of them
it sort of depends on the boy. if the guy your trying to get likes preppy, be preppy! If the guy likes kindness, be kind! But most of all, a guy will notice you if you don't worry about boys noticing you. If you like a certain guy, try talking to him. And when you do, be confident in yourself!
You can give a horse water but you cant make it drink it. Just like in this case. Just be yourself and if he falls for you, he falls for you. If he doesnt theres plenty of fish in the sea and your young, youll find someone(:
first of all you shouldn't MAKE a guy like you, you should should convince them that they wanna like you love isn't love if it's by force. And 2nd be yourself and maybe when you have a chance to talk to him ask him some questions and see if you two have anything in common.