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My friends fight a bunch, how do i stop them?

I hangout with 3 friends during lunch. 2 girls and 1 boy. I will call the boy spear and the first girl heart and the last one clover, so spear and heart fight all the time and for stupid reasons like the other day we did not believe that he found a 5 leaf clove and he got mad. he will not leave because he was to spend time with me and does not have any friends but he wants heart to leave because "he does not get to talk to me" (even though he only truely talks about toys and remember this is hight school) but if she is gone then i am left eating food in silent becasue spear and clover talks all the time. what i am supose to do? I mean hearts mostly takes her anger out on spear and spear takes his anger out on her. she does not get 'treat people teh way you wasnt to be treated' my freinds are so annoying

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Maybe just take a break and tell them to find other people to hang out for a bit (this don't mean don't hangout with them anymore, just hangout with them every second day) so there not with each other every lunch or try To change the subject or even ask them to stop fighting over dumb stuff.

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You call their attention. Tell then they are both being ridiculous and talk with each one personally about it.

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i tried that , did not work
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Then you need to be very serious about it. Stop all the plans until its dealed with.
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but i want to eat ang go tp my locker before the bell rings

but i will. when spear and i am alone becasue of the ptsa meetings be saying taht the agruement was supid and other things. and they only started to agrues when i started to eat with them 4yrs ago.....and spear said that he had a crush on me would those have to do with any of the agrueing
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I dont think that him saying he has a crush on you would have part in that, unless your friend knew he s not good for you. Or at leastt thought that. Now, its not about the arguement. Its about getting to the bittom of things. Why they dont get along, and how they re gonna fix it... Gby
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tehy do not like each other, heart does not like spear b/c her takes his anger out on her and he does not like heart b/c she takes her anger out on him. idk
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And how did they began to not get along?
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Tell them to stop fighting if that don't work tell them to find some other friends

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