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my grandma has bone and breast cancer and the past week she's had water around her heart and her lungs. the a few days ago she was talking and ok but I wasn't there for that. I saw her today and yesterday in the hospital and she couldn't talk because she was on alot of drugs for pain. I just want to know if she knew I was there and just new my presence was there with her. she's on alot of morphine and she couldn't talk. that's why I don't know if she knew I was there. thanks to any answers. she's only has a few more days left at best

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When patient is under the influence of drugs still they are semiconscious some times they can't express but they feel, last year I have seen my Mom she could not express any thing she just stared at us and we felt that she was feeling our presence when a tear just fell out of her eyes from time to time, the scene is very heart rendering but this is the real life and we have to face the truth. I think she feels your presence but could not express in words. I am sorry to know her such condition, may Allah give her good health and longer peaceful healthy life.

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It is very likely that she knew that you were there but can't talk to you as long as she was looking at you. Did she make any kind of gesture or anything? If so then she probably cant answer but if I were you just keep talking to her quietly and tell her you love her. I'm sorry for you man.

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My mother was in the hospital she was on a breathing tube, i also talked to he even though she was on heavy pain meds and the breathing tube she still remembers what i said on that day so yes i really really think she can! Im sorry for your pain!

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Yes, she is aware of your presence and your love. There is much more
to Life than what we behold with our
five physical senses. It may be well
for you to seek out Spiritual writings
to support you in your journey.

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