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What should I do if I cant stand my cocky boyfriend I don't want to lose? :(

I need relationship advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 3 months and until now i've been the most happiest person in the world. I'm noticing he's been acting kind of cocky and talks about a lot of things I don't really care about. I don't want to lose him but this is becoming a huge issue for me. His sister already doesn't like me and she bully's me. if I were to break up with him shed pick on me more and the group of friends I hang out with might not exist because the two of us wouldn't be together. I'm at a lose with what to do. I don't want to hurt anyones feeling and I don't want to lose him. Please help!!!!!:(

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I think it's you with the problem, considering you "don't care about" what he has to say. Just let him talk, it may be his feelings, he may be venting to you, maybe he just wants someone to listen to. You don't have to agree with it but at least care a little bit about how he feels.
As far as his sister bullying you, talk to him about that or consult his parents/guardians about this problem.

This seems to be the first "bump" in your road, so just calm down and stay with him. It doesn't sound like it's anything terrible, just go with it.

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Thank you:) I do listen to what he has to say. I never put him down. I always reply back to what he talks about. The thing is he talks about things that sometimes aren't related and he knows gets on my nerves. Im a quiet person and i'm not stuck up and snotty to him. I just feel suffocated by him sometimes. Thank you for the advice though.
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Then talk to him about these things.
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Talk to him.

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Talk to him about how you feel, because it looks like both of you have some bottled up issues. Once you open up, he’ll most likely let you know what’s bothering him and why he’s been acting strange. You can still make the relationship work as long as you communicate.

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Thank you:)
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you're welcome
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Murder him

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If you dont care for something that your boyfriend does, it will get worse for you as your relationship matures. Tell him how you feel about everything and if that doesnt work, there are alot more guys out there. Good Luck

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Thank you so much!
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