It can't be the same with everyone - I wouldn't want an undercover agent in a terrorist cell to be honest about his job to the terrorists. As I would also prefer a firefighter not to care too much about self respect when he picks me up without my permission to carry me out of a burning building.
And frankly - People are just people, they have their qualities, they have there faults - and you can't compare them,
It's like trying to compare people in the military with people on the police force. All the soldiers will think the army is better, and all the police officers will thing the police are better.
The most important quality a person may posses is their personality. Think about it everything someone named right now ties into their personality whether they have self respect, loyalty, loving, if their honest or even if they love food c: