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How to make ones heart impervious to emotional damage?

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Don't even think about it, Flip Side. If you achieve that level of detachment your emotions will dry up and you'll not only become unpleasant to be with, you won't even like yourself.

On a mature level, pain is the price we sometimes pay for loving. It's well worth the cost. If you're talking about pain at a teenage level be confident that we all went through it and you'll learn to put it behind you. It's part of learning how to be an adult.

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Nice answer
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Thanks Kookie.
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I'm no longer a teenager...but your advice is good. Thanks :)
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I didn't think so but wasn't certain. Thanks FS.
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That was your second great answer, Mr Duff! Excellent point, well declaimed, imho.
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Thank you, Slender Man.
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What a great response to an important question.
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Hi Taise, and thanks. I think it is an important one.
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Be Batman.

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No one can be Batman but Batman. lol
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Fine.. be Bruce Wayne! :D
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Same thing applies. :D Haha!
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dustee

It is in possible to completely shield our hearts from pain.

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Its true no matter how cruel the person is there is a good side to them even if it's small
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Heartbreak is all part of the journey in life. We all go through it, we live, even though we feel like we're not going to, it just makes us stronger, and teaches us how to not have our hearts stomped on again.
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You can't do it.

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Why not?
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You could, you would just need a lot of meditation.
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You're right Hippy!
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Or medication.
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Only Vulcans are without emotion.
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Thanks Kookie.
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You are so very welcome, miss chatting with you.
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Yup
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Not getting on Ask much, I have a couple of busy weeks ahead. Gotta stay busy when you retire.
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Save some time for fun. Life's too short. Also, I miss that smart mouth. Lol
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Thanks Ravin, no body ever called me smart before.
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Well you could live alone at the North Pole without any human contact.... but you might get lonely so I guess that wouldn't work. Yep, Hippy's right you can't.....

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Yeah..that would suck... :P
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and it would be COLD!!!!!
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Ahhh! Please no more cold!!! Hahahaha! XD
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Sorry I'm a Cali girl........ not too familiar with cold.
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Lucky, lucky you! lol Softy!!!! jk :)
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I am.... If it get's below 60 I'm crying like a baby!!!!!
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Oh you poor thing!! Hahaahahaaha! excuse me if I have a chuckle...lol :)
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Well don't feel too bad it gets reallly hot here in the summer.
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Like how hot?
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over 110 some times........ HOT!!!!!! No humidity though so that helps.
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Aww heck no, that's way too hot for me, I'd combust into flames.
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Wow!
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You can't, unless you are incapable of having feelings.
No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn't bring you what you want, it taught you what you don't want.

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I am all to capable. lol
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Sorry, I updated while you answered, hope this helps.
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I have a whole list of "don't wants" LOL
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Exactly.
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If you try too hard to block out bad memories or experiences,you can do permanent damage to yourself...deal with things as they happen,and become wiser with each one.Your answer lies in the knowledge you take from each experience you have,remembering both the good and bad.

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Great answer Chin as always!! How ya doing???? Warm weather is on the way, water here we come, whoohoo!
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Ha,yep!...been riding around with the top off the Jeep for a few days now...finally! The river is next,haha....
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Impossible

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Nothing is impossible...when your dying emotionally love harder. Your heart is impervious to negativity...it survives and you keep living for what you love and what you do have. Gratitude and persevere. Its about not letting the pain and struggle ruin your will to live happy and loving.

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