DO not take the dose one day and stop the next, take it again another day and stop again - That will not work unless you are one of those lucky persons that have a great tolerance to side effects. The trick is getting your dose of Paroxetine (http://www.guidechem.com/cas-618/61869-08-7.html) down till 1/16 and keep it there fore some time before quitting. Relax while you are doing it while assessing if you feel alright or not. Keep yourself active and busy and enjoy some good social parties or hang around with friends. It's vital to stay relaxed and motivated.
You need to ask your doctor first before withdrawal as there may be side effects associated to it. The doctor may prescribe some supplements to use while withdrawing from the anxiety drugs slowly. It may be risky to do it alone as the outcome may be terrible.