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how do you ask a shy girl out?

so i like this shy girl. we havent really been able to speak because she sits across the room in the one class that i have with her. how do i start a conversation? how long should i wait to ask her out? u know, not as a girlfriend, but just a date (so that we can get to know eachother)

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write a note or just go up to her and be gentle and nice and tell her how you feel dont be to forward be slow and take it slow. GOOD LUCK!

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try asking her out

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do you know that you have the devil number in your name sorry i cant follow you until you change that... i am a God person and i am not mad but....... can you please change your name then i will follow you
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66 than another 6= 666
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really? I had no idea!
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oh its ok. you can go on google and find it up there but i cant follow you until you change your name because your name said's

" i love you devil "
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You do realize that i'm not changing my name, right?
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idc because im not following you so this should be the last time we talk lol bye....
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wow you have issues. I would recommend therapy.
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you are crazy i recommend God
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I recommend Kim Jong Un
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you need to start by asking what she's doing, go with a flow and ask her to spend some more time with her later, after a few times ask her out :P good luck n00b

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nice comment can you follow me?
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why?
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1st, ask a group of friends and invite her, so its not awkward. Just ask, Do you know where ------- is? to start a conversation. Remember, talk to her, but most importantly-listen to her. Hear and respond to what she has to say, and be sincere. Don't act superior or like you are "all that" or "the total package". Start slow and hope for the best ;) good luck!

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Take a ladies handkerchief to her and say you found it on her seat yesterday .

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Totally
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smart lol
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Do you know what she's interested in, things she likes? If not, find out from one of her friends.
When you do know what she's into, start a conversation using one of her interests. For example, if she has a favorite TV show, ask her about the show.
After you've talked to her a few times, you could ask her to come over & watch her favorite show with you... or, something like that...
Also, try to make her laugh, we "girls" love guys who can make us laugh... and, since she's shy, making her laugh would get her to open up a little more & be more sociable... good luck! :)

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I think you should talk to her, start a general conversation and start asking her questions like how old she is and where she came from and some other questions but I don't know how long she's been new at the school

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Just walk by and say "Hi, how are you?" then just simply talk to her.

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be real nice in find out what she likes

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Just be yourself..and show her that your actually interested in getting to know her! Make her get out of her shy shell and show her the world Nd what she's missing!!!

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yelling works really well, be forceful

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try to help her with some thing like H.Ws,then in this way talk to her daily about any thing just talk after that write her a letter or tell her directly. good luck with ur date

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good advice, too bad shes only 300x smarter than me lol
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Dress-up like Morpheus and offer her a Blue M&M and a Red M&M, but don't explain what they mean. Be prepared for what seems like rejection at first - hope for the Yellow Peanut M&M (them are tasty).

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I'm a shy girl. I would want a guy to ask me out by coming over to me face to face and asking. He must be gentle and give me some space. He must also be patient because I would probably feel embarrassed, blush, and say no at first or that I'm not sure yet. So try and make this girl feel as comfortable as you possibly can. talk to her about things she may be interested. Don't make her feel intimidated. she can be very sensitive.

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Walk up to her and ask her if she wants to hear a clean or dirty joke. If "Clean" then she might be shy and need some work on your part. But "Dirty" she's a freak. Either way you don't want to go around thinking she could've been the one that got away. Go talk to her.

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