I told a friend I was interested in him and asked if he liked me back. He never gave me a straight answer. Is he interested and not telling?
I am interested in one of my guy friends here at college and I wasn't sure if he liked me back. I asked him to do dinner one evening and I told him that I was interested and asked if he thought there would ever be anything between us. He danced around the answer. He said that he doesn't have time to think about dating. He told me that he wouldn't be ready to date for a very long time and he also mentioned the fact that he would be in college for 6-7 years because he's a nursing major but he's only taking 14 credits a semester. He's also in some financial hardships because of school and he's in the Marines. He walked me back to my dorm and I asked him for a final answer, telling him if he didn't think there was anything between us I would move on someday. Jay said that if God brought someone else my way to not think about him. He closed with "If it happens, it happens." I left very confused.
Is this his roundabout way of saying if he could date me he would? We are both Christians, so if I pray about this and if God doesn't clearly bring someone my way, is it safe to assume Jay and I will be together in the long run?