Making someone do something is very difficult. Best practice is to ignore he person. If you really need to confront the person you can say something like, "You do realize this is pointless right? The more you disrespect me, the less I will listen. It just makes sense. Then don't be disrespectful. I have not given you that right." Don't get into a shouting match or lose your temper, you will not win. Clam and rational statements go a long way.