Dont mention to him anything about u thinkin he is cheatin cuz it will jus make him try to cover it up more. Do your investigation without anyone knowin. If he hides his phone & wont let u see it girl he got somethin goin on been through it myself. He is hidin it so if he get a text or call u wont kno & he must have numbers in it that he dont want u to see. Also dont ask his boys nothin cuz they will lie for each other or say I dont know. But a womans intuition is somethin else. If you have a feeling or doubt on somethin girl follow that gut feelin!
I believe you should just ask him straight, Are you cheating on me, or Are you seeing someone else. From how he will react to the question, it will speak a lot of volume and you will definitely get an answer from there.
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Last edited at 7:28PM on 10/21/2011
Are you cheating? You'd be suprised that most people want to be caught or to tell their partner the truth really, so it's better to ask to just get everything out on the table and talk about what the real problem is, because it's not really about the "other person", since if that person doesn't work out for you, there will probably be someone else down the line. If your current relationship is not working, that's probably why he's cheating in the first place. Just my opinion.
Just come out and ask him if he is cheating. I found out along time a go that if some one is lying to you their pupils in their eyes get larger.,for they know their caught in a lie. A police officer told me that years ago. And it 's true try it some time on him or her the eyes never lie to you.
Been here. Was engaged...note the WAS...he was inconsistent with hus stories and a bad liar! Here's examples: He would find reasons to go out to the car & be on his cell, then deny talking on the phone--even after seeing him! he'd tell me he was at one friend's house (Jay) then say he was somewhere else and say I must have heard him wrong. Needless to say, he made me sound crazy...but, I got the cellphone bill and found all the texts & calls...he came home to his crap outside.