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How do You Keep a Long Lasting Relationship with Someone?

When I'm Older I want to be Ready & Know how to Maintain & to KEEP a Healthy & Long Lasting Relationship & Spend the Rest of Life my with that Person,I want my Relationship to Last Forever, Any Tips? (Married People Particularly or Preferably)

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From the experience of myself, I have found the key to having a long lasting relationship, Is to be patient. Wait till you find the right person to spend this true relationship with. It also takes Trust, Dedication, and of course, Unconditional Love.
Sure, You may hit some bumps in the road every now and then, but what really matters if you two can make amends at the end of the day and learn from mistakes you may have made.

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I can feel my sister blushing right now. ;)
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She doesn't look like she is blushing to me. But, okay!
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That's Wonderful Advice Bambino, I am Just Worried About 2 Main Things Really: 1.If a Girl Cheats on me I will be Devastated & Heartbroken because I am a Very Loyal Person 2.If I had Children or a Child with that Person & Something went Wrong, then I would be so Depressed for Losing My Child & My Girl so those r my Main Concerns & Worries...Thanks Again! :)
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We all worry and concern sometimes, and that is quite normal.
But always keep your head up! Because their could be a bright future in store!
Good luck, in your future relationships, friend!
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Jaja, alright!
I will call her and ask tomorrow! ;)
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I will Try to make the Right Choice, Hopefully it Pays Off & Wont be a Mistake Instead of a Miracle <3
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Best of luck to you, Kind Stranger.
And do as you wish, Esméralda.
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well communication is one of the key. but theres more. like trust, loyal, dont cheat, and it will just come to you when your on the situation. youll feel what you need to do when your in the situation

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Thanks Love Doc :)
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no problem. glad i can help. :)
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wELL wE mEET aGAIN, cAPTAIN cAPITAL, mY aRCHNEMISIS!

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Lol I Know it's my OCD Kicking in, I Feel Some Words Deserve to be Capitalized at Start & Some Others Just Don't Look Right, LoL :P
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it's alright. I use all caps when writing anything in real life. Comes from military, we have to use all caps when writing because it's more legible.
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Interesting lol I Just Capitalize when I'm Texting & I'm doing it on Ask Because I have the Mobile App LoL :D
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I have been married for 20 years. You need a lot a patience with the other person and you need to know when to let them win an argument to prevent a bigger one because it doesn't benefit anyone. You need to learn to read their emotions and how to deal with them (if someone likes to be left alone when they're mad leave them alone, if they like blowing steam off all at once, let them). When you're dating, don't get ahead of yourself or take your relationship too fast. Take it slow and savor each part of time. Talk to your partner frequently and share details about yourself, they may not have to be top secret details, but share things about yourself so that the other person learns more about you too. Nobody is perfect <-remember this. Most of all, be the support your partner needs when she needs it. These are just a few... it would take more than words to teach/learn how to keep a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

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Thanks Kristi, Much Appreciated for the Great Advice :)
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1. No secrets. Be completely opened. 2. what affects one will affect the other. 3. never loose what made that person fall in love with you, (unless its something bad) and never foregt that you love that person. 4. Never do something that will ruin your relationship (cheat, harm, do things by force or etc) 5. be there for that person 6. share quality time qith that person 7. make Jesus the base of your relationship. Gby

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Okay Thanks for the Suggestions :)
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glory to God
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You sound like GREAT guy. Any woman would be lucky to have you. That is so awesome, what you wish for. That definitely would be the ultimate way to have things.
I think it all starts with having the partner that you KNOW is right for you. They say opposites attract, but I truly don't believe they have the straying power that "similars" have. Personally, I honestly believe that partners with similar personalities and traits would be the ones to get along the best. KNOW your partner extremely well, before you get married. I made the mistake of not living with my husband before marriage. I wasn't the type to do that anyway, but it would have helped me to see him in all the ways I didn't get to see him, not living with him. I'll never be naive in that regard again, given the chance. Also, remember....how your partner is after the "in love" phase fades is critical. If you make it through that, I believe you'll have it made. I hope you get that great marriage that you so desire. That sounds like the ultimate way to have it. Good luck to you in the future. :)

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Thanks, coming from an Adult Mother, that means a lot & I Appreciate Your Advice, I was HONESTLY hoping u would Answer this Question because I have seen u Answer Questions in the Past & u are very smart & wise it seems, I hope for no mistakes in the future & I hope to never face a Divorce in the future, I couldn't imagine having a child or children with that person & that happening, I would be heart broken, So Thanks for the Great Advice Ms, Much Appreciation :)
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Oh wow, you are kidding! I had no idea you were familiar with me. Wow. I am extremely flattered! I am touched.Thank you so much. :)
You seem very mature. I don't know your age.
Yes, divorce with a child would be absolutely terrible. I hope it never has to happen for you.
Thank you, again, for your beautiful compliments. :)
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Wow---terrible typo---staying power, not stRaying power, that should have been, in my answer. Oh boy, that puts a whole other light on things! :-D
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Lol yes haha, I'm Actually 14 & Your Very Welcome :D
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Well, you seem very mature. Thanks for sharing your age. :)
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Lol Thanks A lot :) & yes I do find your very Familiar & I would also Consider u to be one of the "Regulars" on this site as I have Noticed, I do Enjoy the "Regulars" & Always Recognize Them haha :)
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You're welcome. :)
Yes, I am on here a lot.
Thanks again. :)
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