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How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me if he won't even hold my hand?

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Wait for him to get comfortable with you.

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How long have y'all been dating?

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Two and a half months
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He's probly not your type then if he doesn't want to hold your hand or kiss you. Break up with him if he will not do anything that shows you to are together.
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No! I like him a lot!!!!!
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Then why did you ask this if you like him a lot but yet he doesn't want to hold your hand or kiss you because to me it sounds like he doesn't like you back.
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It's all gradual. One step at a time. First the hand hold, then the hug, then the peck on the cheek, then the kiss.

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But we always hug. Every day.
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Then reverse the first two steps, maybe when you're crossing the street, hold out your hand in a cute manor, he can't refuse.
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Well, we're a bit young. 13ish
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I mean you could find a situation where holding hands is in context (like crossing the street) and go from there.
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Yeah but we can't go a lot of places. My dad forbids me to have a boyfriend so we don't really have a chance unless we want to get in trouble at school
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Oh, I see. Well, he's just going to have to warm up to you if there's no other way. Make the hugs a little tighter and hope for the best I guess.
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Well thank anyways :)
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Sometimes, its because hes not comfortable, give him some times! :)

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If he can't hold ur hands that ain't ur mans girl

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What?
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He might be waiting on you to do those things. You should try to hold his hand, if you want him to kiss you, then you should kiss him first. And I also agree with what swallex said.

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Thanks :)
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You shouldn't force people to do anything. It's all about communication, anyway.

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I know, but I have a need to be touching him. It soothes me.
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U have to do the move first, lady!

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