No, that's weird. I am turning 16 pretty soon and I will tell you that from my perspective, a 13 year old looks like a little kid. 16 year olds should stick to dating people who are at least in high school.
just no S3X god please no there is so many people at your age that get p. (sorry i dont like saying the word) and its stupid so be smart and dont date or be safe one or the other cuz all 16 year old boy wants it S3X
First of all, if the girl is 13 she should be on birth control regardless, sexually active or not. In this day and time, stuff happens. I have 2 daughters myself, but personally it totally depends on the maturity level of both the boy and the girl. If they BOTH are responsible and adequately mature, I see nothing wrong with it at all. I was 17 with a 21 year old boyfriend. Now that very same man is my loving husband. It should ONLY be allowed in cases of strong maturity levels in both people.
Honestly I think people forgot what it was like a few 1000 years ago. When man was still in assyran times, people didn't care how old you were. They just knew to get a partner. thats how animals do it and they are better off then we are. So what i am saying is that if you love him, go for it
Okay. Think of it this way. I think it's kind of okay now, because as a teenager (13), you think you want a boyfriend, not knowing the consequences of it all, "I love him", "He wants my babies", "He said we're going to be together forever.." Whatever. However...., I think that no one in this generation thinks ahead. Like: I said it's kind of alright now because it's like "Oh, he's only three years older than me and look at mom and dad, they're 5 years apart, no problem there! But if you were like me, and thought ahead, you would think: "Okay. I like this guy who's a little bit older than me no biggy. But... if this relationship goes further,(like continues into months, and years..) (basically a serious relationship and not this kid stuff) than he'll be 18 and legal, and I'll be only 15..." And if you're dumb (keyword "if"), you would have sex with him, so you're "lover" will go to prison for technically raping you. Hope my words were inspiring and helpful. Tip: Make the right choices. Starting with spelling. Boyfriend*** :)
I don't think it's a great idea. It can build a lot of stress. Right now, (still in school) you probably shouldn't. It could lead to horrible things. For example, later in life you may want to have sexual interactions. If you aren't (I think that's the legal age, but it's really stupid because that is way too young) 16 yet, he would go to jail for sexual harassment or rape. Even if you let him or don't want him to go, it doesn't matter. So wait. Find someone different. When you get out of school, age is just a number.. but for now I would not be doing that kind of thing. Be with someone your age and remember, wait. Don't just find someone else to fill a hole. Find someone who you truly care about but is age appropriate. My mother and stepfather are 6 years apart, they are in love. Have been married for 9 years. :) Good luck out there
I'm kind of annoyed with everyone saying 'your too young to have a boyfriend'. I think people can fall in love at any age. As long as he doesn't take up all your time, distract you from school work, isn't a total creep, etc. What I DON'T believe in is LARGE age gaps.