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should a 13 year old have a 16 year old boygriend?

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At that age it's not a great idea to have a boyfriend at all. It adds to the stress when it wont work out. So in other words, No.

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I see nothing wrong with it.

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No.

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I say, who cares about age. But really I don't think a 13 year old should worry about having a boyfriend right now

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You're so right.
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people sometimes care about age because if they are bf and gf they can have a baby and die if they are younge
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I'm not one of them my dear.
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That's true
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If you're that young you should just be thinking about living life to its fullest
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Yes :)

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u kidding right
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Nope
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u 16 or 13
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17 why...
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Your too young to be dating, especially a 16 year old.

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3 years isn't much but again thirteen is a bit young. Thirteen year old should wait until she is a lot older to experience a relationship trust she will spear herself heartache in the end

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Everyone will experience heartache and pain at a point in one's life, no matter the reason.
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It's better to experience when you are older and a bit wiser i don't like seeing middle school children with low self esteem all because of a relationship that went bad
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Heartache hurts just as bad regardless if you are 13 or 30. For me personally I am thankful I got to experience heartache a couple of times at a young age because it taught me not to be so gullible and naive about how life worked. It also taught me not to believe every boy that tells you they love you....
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I don't think so but it's your choice.

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Age is nothing but the years you have been alive.
Love is a force bigger then all of us
Love>age

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What inspiring words you have.
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She's 13.
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I hope you don't believe in that philosophy if involves a 13 year old and a 36 year old man
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xD true that click
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Rachaelthe is a youngster herself.
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You do have to be 13 to be on this site.. at least i think.
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I belive in love not pedefiles and im 13 2
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What has this world come to?
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i do not think so because there are some serious side effects

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Absolutely not. A 13 yr. old shouldn't have a boyfriend/girlfriend at all.

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it's not a big deal really, but sex is he should wait until she's old enough

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ya because love is blind

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Lol but you can't SEE age! I agree that love is blind though :)
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I'm 13 and I have a girlfriend, if its a mature 13 year old then absolutely if not then well no.

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No because when he goes to collage you wonder see him for 3yrs

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Yeah I guess. But the older boy friend usually takes advantage of the younger girl. And by advantage, I mean sex

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Love > age

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I wouldn't let my daughter at 13 date a 16 yr old. Most guys at that age are focused on sex.

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MOST, but not ALL.
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Yeah, as I said MOST.
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age is just a number <3

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says the person who gives love out lol im kidding
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hahahaha yea (x
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as long as the guy is genuinely interested in love, not s3x. then I see nothing wrong with it. However, if not, then steer clear.

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No, that's weird. I am turning 16 pretty soon and I will tell you that from my perspective, a 13 year old looks like a little kid. 16 year olds should stick to dating people who are at least in high school.

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Ask Jerry lee Lewis

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no not really... well actually yes, that's more like baby sitting...

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you shouldn't have a ANY boyfriend if you spell it with a g lol. jk yeah, its ok but what about when he turns 18?

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who cares numbers are just numbers and if they love each other than why not but if its like a 30 year old with a 15 year old then there is a big thing wrong with theses people

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No.

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just no S3X god please no there is so many people at your age that get p. (sorry i dont like saying the word) and its stupid so be smart and dont date or be safe one or the other cuz all 16 year old boy wants it S3X

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No.... I think he should stick around to his age. I think 13 is to young for him

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First of all, if the girl is 13 she should be on birth control regardless, sexually active or not. In this day and time, stuff happens. I have 2 daughters myself, but personally it totally depends on the maturity level of both the boy and the girl. If they BOTH are responsible and adequately mature, I see nothing wrong with it at all. I was 17 with a 21 year old boyfriend. Now that very same man is my loving husband. It should ONLY be allowed in cases of strong maturity levels in both people.

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I forgot to mention the fact that I am 29 now....so I've been in love and married to the same man for 12 years. I'm willing to bet a truckload of money that we will still be in love and married 50+ more years. Just because someone is young doesn't mean that they are stupid and that they don't know what they want out of life. Even at 13....yes its a very young age but some of the worlds 13 year olds are far more mature than the people running this country.
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no..........she should not even be thinking of that now..........you are still young dont push life everything will come on its own.......

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theres nothing wrong with that,,

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I see nothing wrong with it. i'm 19 and i'm dating a guy that is 27.

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Theres nothing wrong with it. I mean when i was 12 I had a bf that was almost 17. That was scary.

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that's not dating that's babysitting

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nothing wrong with it for those ppl that think their is get with the times maybe step outside your little bubble and take a look around

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Ages shouldn't change the love, but I wouldn't. At your age 3 years is a lot.

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Honestly I think people forgot what it was like a few 1000 years ago. When man was still in assyran times, people didn't care how old you were. They just knew to get a partner. thats how animals do it and they are better off then we are. So what i am saying is that if you love him, go for it

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Honestly, I think love is blind...but, I have to agree with most people on this one. Thirteen is a bit young...sorry :)

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no

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AnD THTS SAID BY QUAGMIRE....... U SHOULD RLY LISTEN
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Eh who cares cause when ur 21 be will be about 24 so ya but when u say 13 and 16 it sounds kinda to young but I guess it's fine

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kindaaa :P but its really your decision. you shouldn't care what other people say or think.

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well ya if u guys r really in luv with eachother :D

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If you really love e each other dont just do it to say you actually have a boyfriend or to make your friends jealous do it because you truly love them

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my grandparents are 14 years apart in age and they have been married forever

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Lol. No, b/c that is to young. You barely just started puberty!

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personally i think u shoudnt, but its a free country, a man could marry a man if they want to, but thats gross

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but, are u 13 and in love with a 16 yr old
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of course all he wants is that thing you are younger therefor stupid and being taken advantage of

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Okay. Think of it this way. I think it's kind of okay now, because as a teenager (13), you think you want a boyfriend, not knowing the consequences of it all, "I love him", "He wants my babies", "He said we're going to be together forever.." Whatever. However...., I think that no one in this generation thinks ahead. Like: I said it's kind of alright now because it's like "Oh, he's only three years older than me and look at mom and dad, they're 5 years apart, no problem there! But if you were like me, and thought ahead, you would think: "Okay. I like this guy who's a little bit older than me no biggy. But... if this relationship goes further,(like continues into months, and years..) (basically a serious relationship and not this kid stuff) than he'll be 18 and legal, and I'll be only 15..." And if you're dumb (keyword "if"), you would have sex with him, so you're "lover" will go to prison for technically raping you. Hope my words were inspiring and helpful. Tip: Make the right choices. Starting with spelling. Boyfriend*** :)

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i dont see anything wrong with that

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idk, i also have a boyfriend that's 15 about 2 turn 16 and i'm also 13. i see nothing wrong with that as long as he's not more than 7 years older than me. well... at least that's what i think! ;-)

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I don't think it's a great idea. It can build a lot of stress. Right now, (still in school) you probably shouldn't. It could lead to horrible things. For example, later in life you may want to have sexual interactions. If you aren't (I think that's the legal age, but it's really stupid because that is way too young) 16 yet, he would go to jail for sexual harassment or rape. Even if you let him or don't want him to go, it doesn't matter. So wait. Find someone different. When you get out of school, age is just a number.. but for now I would not be doing that kind of thing. Be with someone your age and remember, wait. Don't just find someone else to fill a hole. Find someone who you truly care about but is age appropriate. My mother and stepfather are 6 years apart, they are in love. Have been married for 9 years. :) Good luck out there

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It depends on the person....

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As long as he treats you well and you like each other, it doesn't matter. so, yah. it's fine

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really don't recommend it.

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I'm kind of annoyed with everyone saying 'your too young to have a boyfriend'. I think people can fall in love at any age. As long as he doesn't take up all your time, distract you from school work, isn't a total creep, etc. What I DON'T believe in is LARGE age gaps.

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