Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns and the issues that bother you about him. Ask him if there are ways that he could adjust his behavior then talk about it. However, you should not be judgmental.
Which country? In the USA we are taught George Washington was our first president but in fact there were 6 or 7 before him. Check this link as it is very fascinating how those before him got wiped out of history! http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/582763/posts