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blacknwhite17

Help Me Please!!!!! I am having the worst time!!!

one of my super good guy friends who has a girlfriend who over this year i have developed feelings for... We were txting two days ago and he said that he has feelings for me but he doesnt want to hurt his girlfriend because he is in love with her. He said that he loves talking with me and we are best friends, but just today his girlfriend has had a problem with me for a while and she told him today that she wants him to stop talking to me for good, he txted me telling me that and that he was SO SORRY and that we could still txt personally i dont think that is enough i am REALLY hurt right now but he doesnt get it because he is so focused on not hurting his girl friend... Pleeeeaaaasssseeee tell me what I should do!!!!!! i Really need advice ASAP!!! please tell me anything that you think will help me!

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Tell him to tell her to stop talking to any guy friend she got too .

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hah welcome to 7th grade

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Tweetybird627

I think you should your friend as your friend. Sorry honey

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blacknwhite17
what do you mean by this?
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Tweetybird627
yeah, that you should forget about ur best friend.
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You need to tell him that it's not all about the girl that he is dating and that you have feelings also and tell him he needs to man up and tell his girlfriend what he really feels about her !!!! It's not good to hide things from the person you are dating

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He's not a good friend or boyfriend either, since he's a sneak. He doesn't know what love is, please. He just wants to keep her happy to get se.x. You're better off without him. You will get over him in time and make a better guy friend who will make you happy. I promise.

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If he'll cheat on his girlfriend he will most likely cheat on you too

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Loveybug09

Who cares! She is probably just jealous because he is talking to other girls beside her! Tell her that nothing is going on between the two of you and have her check "OK" messages! She is just insecure about her relationship!

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I would give him a little space. It will be very hard but you do not want to get hurt. If you already told him how you feel then only time will tell if he will leave current girlfriend. Until then carry on having fun with your friends and occasionally text to say hello. You can be nice to him but hold back a little and play hard to get. If he truly has feelings for you, let him pursue you.

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Well just follow your gut. I mean have you told him you like him yet? If not TELL THE BOY! I mean once you just come out and say it things might just turn your way. Dont be afraid follow your heart! <3

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Don't worry. Tell him you are still his best friend, and give him a little time .

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tell off his gf. if you really like this guy, fight for what you love. thats all i can say <3

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The truth shall set you free.

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it honestly takes time. i had the exact same thing happen to me last year.. i was talking to a guy and he had a gf at the time. they had only been dating for like a month but he didnt want to hurt her. she found out that he had been talking to me and so she went off on me.. they broke up a couple weeks after that happened and then he asked me out. yesterday was our 9 month anniversary<3 anyway with your situation, if his girlfriend bothers you anymore then either ignore her or let her know that her boyfriend who "loves" her sooo much has feelings for you..

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If he really loved his girlfriend he wouldn't have liked any body els so that's why u always go for the 2 person don't worry he will come around to it . I hope u feel better :)

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Give him the cold shoulder. Ignore his texts. Make him know how it feels to lose someone you love.

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