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How could I not be so superficial?

I'm a guy who have lots of friends who aren't considered "attractive" and I always try to look past appearances, but when I am considering who to ask out I feel disgusted by myself for having a superficial bias. I know there are lots of girls who are not as pretty but have great personality, and I like them, but I can't imagine being their boyfriend. How could I not be this way?

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"Looks" are not everything, nor is any other quality of a person everything. "Beauty" is in the eye of the beholder, inner and outer beauty.Therefore, one is not being superficial. Relax, you are just being human.

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Think about all their great qualities!

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Put yourself in they're shoes an ask yourself if its fair to act that way.

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