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Yes ... a kiss goodnight ... on the cheek.

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Gentleman. They don't make those anymore.
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Yes, they do. Just like they make solid gold pens. They're just hard to find. :(
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I think it's easier to find the gold pens...lol than a gentleman (or lady for that matter)
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Nice Mona, and correct. Lady's are hard to find also. Or maybe it just takes time for these young people to grow into the roles.
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they can only grow into the roles if the seeds have been planted by parents and mentors
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Star for you Tony!! Great minds think alike! :-)
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Mona. It's why I'm on here. I like to think if just on young person takes done advice, then I earned my wash off label, fall apart, t-shirt.
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giving advice to the youth is like trying to nail jello to a tree.
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depends if you both like each other

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If you feel it...then go for it.

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If you really like them than yea

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If you like each other and it feels right, then sure. Just don't do something you aren't comfortable with because you think it's expected of you on a date.

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yes, go for it. Start with a nice peck on the cheek.

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Nice answer.
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Really hard to say. I did on the last first date I ever hope I go on.

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Awwwww
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tattoogirl
Sweet! :-)
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Stop with all the sappy stuff.
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tattoogirl
Well @ least your not still out in the scary dating seen!!
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Yeah. I can't imagine the dating scene. Still has its draw watching friends out there. I've had to play unavailable wingman. But I'm glad I found who I did. I'm happy.
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Very happy for you!! :-)
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Depends on if the other person wants you to, not what we think.

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I'd say no, because I think it's better to take relationships a little slower than the average American does, and also, if you're a guy going out with a girl, it shows her that you care about HER, and not just her body/sex if you don't kiss on the first date.

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I agree,
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According to Patty on Millionaire Matchmaker, yes.

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tattoogirl

Well that's up to you! But a sweet little kiss on the cheek is always nice! :-)

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Hey, girl, I have a little problem. Sincerity asked me a few days ago to get her email address from you. But, I think she thinks you and I talk outside of ask. I don't think she wants it displayed here, do you? Her father passed away, so she's not here right now and my account has been messed up some.
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Hi tat... miss you...... :) cupcakes
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A kiss on the cheek, and a "goodnight, I hope we can do this again soon..."

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Yes....but only "if" you had a great time!! :)
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Well hopefully he wouldn't say it if he didn't want to see her again!
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Seriously3
Sweet!
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Awwwwwwwww !
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I guess this was a good answer?!
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Seriously3
Oh, it was more than a good answer! Your response will make a girl/woman feel like a lady that is desired. It really doesn't get any better than that! Awesome answer!
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Well thank you!
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You're welcome. Seriously, stay an attentive gentleman and the girls will always love you! Take it from an old lady!
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You can't be THAT old, 35 right?
My mom always says ALL women stop aging at 35... Lol
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Ha , ha For my mom it's 29 ha , ha ! Every year ! lol.
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No wonder you're so smart! You have a wise mother AND you listen to her! :) And, as a matter of fact, I AM 35 !! *wink, wink*
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Well Liz she can be 29, just not more than 35, she's turned 35 the past several years now!
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RedRose

Depends how long I've known the guy and how much I liked him. Probably would, or at least a kiss on the cheek.

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hey rose its boring without you here = {
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one day up in heaven ,god said to all the men to form 2 lines,
One line is for the men head of the house....
next line is for the women who are the head if the house hold....
The line of the women's line ran hundreds of miles long....
the line for the men there was only one man standing there....
God said to the men that was hundreds of miles long
I created you to be the head of the households but only one if you stood up and made me proud....
God looked at the only man standing in line and told him him please tell these other men how you were the only one to stand in this line......
the man looked confused and said i don't know my wife told me to stand here = /
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Hahahahaha XD at least the other men knew their place!
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depends if you knew them before then.. You kinda want to hold out and make them want you more..lol

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No because of transmitted diseases can get into you. Some could be STD's, Herpies (Dont know how to spell it), And etc. You do NOT want these. Just wait until your older

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Please go back to your mine craft. I dont think you should be ivolved with a persons relationship
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That's the truth. Keep your comments to yourself
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lololol
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What
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im sorry, this is really funny!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes just a small kiss on the cheek and speak some soft word into her ear like I love u or I hope I can see u again soon. Don't be pushy

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If you really like them then yea, but if you guys are just meeting then...mayb not lol

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Not a lip to lip kiss.

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Heck yea! If she will

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dustee

Yes, for three chocolate cupcakes.

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I don't see why not .

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yes

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cowgirlfun

Maybe. Don't rush things thou. Maybe a kiss on the cheek.

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It’s hard to talk about things or on a first date. Furthermore, expectation questions very petrifying. A small study and understanding of first date etiquette can help to these fears.

By the end of the first date a kiss seems like the perfect end. But not so if the date is inconvenient. Kiss is a personal decision and a collective decision. Take your calls with your partner’s approval and then go for it.

For more go to http://www.loveandtips.com/dating/first/etiquette/

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I think yes.A kiss means that you like her/him.You want to be her/his friend for a long time.

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i didn't like her after the date then yes
but if i did like her no i wouldn't risk it
it ... i would kiss her hand next date on the cheek 3rd maybe = /

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RedRose
wow long process
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is that bad...?
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RedRose
no, just impressive patience
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somethings are just worth the wait rose....
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RedRose
i would definitely agree! nowadays everything is so rushed....it cheapens it a bit, i think. i guess im just used to guys being pushy about stuff. i really respect ur answer.
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you should be respected rose....
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thank you....its hard to find respectful guys. youre a rare breed...
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thank you rose
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Green_Goblin

if you guys are serious and what not, go for it. that is REALLY romantic!!!!!

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depends on if u still want to c that person

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