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Is it hard to be best friends with your Ex?

it's been two months and me and my ex are friends but I'm kinda scared that ill fall for him again when one part of me is saying no dont fall for it and the other is saying he changed and everything.we had been dating for 9 months then this incident happened and we remain friends from that point on..

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Yes, it's hard to be best friends with my ex especially if his new girlfriend is way uglier than me... :P

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IT's not hard, it's impossible! But you can fake it.

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No problem. But if one of the people involved still has a fleeting hope that maybe, just maybe, they'll get back together then I don't think that's being "friends". People can be friendly to their exes but there is usually an ulterior motive. Just my opinion though.
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It can be because sometimes you can get jealous when hes around other girls and he can get jealous when your around other guys but Im not best friends with my ex im just friends with him so that way i dont have to talk to him often and not get jealous

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Not really, my ex-girlfriend and I dated for 4 years. A year later we became friends again and we've had no problems. We've even double dated with our new dates, it is a little weird at times if the subject of our relationship comes up but otherwise it is nice to still have her in my life. I never told her but before she left me for someone else I was planing to ask her to marry me...
It is hard sometimes I won't lie but I am glad to have her in my life still

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yes it is

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Why put yourself through repeated drama? Is it truly worth it to you?

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yea its really hard

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Ya ! If u like drama! In sums cases ? U do get along but 90% is drama ?!

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Yep.

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Yes unless your truly over each other.

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Here's something teens need to learn, people don't stay friends with their ex's. They just don't, for many MANY reasons.

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It's what you and that person make it.

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you must ask yourself why you broke up in the first place -believe me,he will not change long term-he will eventually go back to the way he was when you broke up.
you will be able to remain friends for long,it will just prolong a relationship that has no future.

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yes baby girl,very hard:(

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