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What are some flaws of being an insightful person?

My parents and other adults tell me that I'm an extremely insightful person. I just want to know in your perspective is there anything wrong with that?

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Hi, honey. That's a really good question. I'm 54 now & have been called that ever since I was 14. There have been many times I looked at a situation and saw something wrong with it that no one else saw, for instance. And if I told someone about it, they'd just think I was crazy and not pay any attention. I think that can be the downside. So many times, I would "have a feeling" that someone "shouldn't do something" or that someone wasn't "telling the truth" and that the other person about to do that something or listen to that someone should not; however they did. But I found out if I warned them ahead of time, there was resentment. So I think the downside is knowing when to keep it to yourself and knowing when you can say something and the person take it at face value. It's like WE know we want to help them, but they take it as an insult to their intelligence; therefore, we have to be very careful of people's feelings.

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I know! I find myself stressing out when people don't believe. It's very frustrating...but I guess I have to deal with the fact that not all people see things the way we do.
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Also, it feels good to know, that there's someone out there like me :)
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Oh, boy, do I ever. Sisters at heart. <3
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Of course :) <3
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people get anoyed..
But I love insightful people honestly

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ah, thx :3
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All our good points can be bad points. It depends on how we use them. For instance, just because you can have that insight does not mean you should share it every time. As you get older you will know when to share what you see and when to keep your mouth shut. Just like the trait of being selfish. It can be rude and mean but when you are selfish to protect yourself so you do not get hurt or burned out, it is healthy. Everything has a good and bad side!

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of course, thank you :)
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Good response, Shelly...
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yvw naughty and tyvm Mar!
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Everybody has flaws. Mine? Being nosy and getting into everybody's business. There is nothing wrong with that. Nothing. It's perfectly normal and your parents gave birth to you so they should accept you for who you are, not who they want you to be. You'll find a really important person in your life to tell you that they like you, flaws and all.

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true, thanks :)
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no problem:)
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There's nothing wrong w/ being insightful. The only problem that exists is how you react and use that insight you have. There will be times that you see things in people that scare or disturb you and you need to balance those insights w/ discretion on how to deal w/ this info you have perceived. Honesty is always important, but discretion is also just as important.

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It's hard making friends, 'cause I can see everyone I know is fake :/
by the way thank you :)
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You're welcome. Don't lose faith in others, but encourage them to be more then they are. By being true to yourself you can be the example for others to follow.
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yes, very true...your amazing :) (smart,mature)
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Thank you ; ) Have a great day!
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The only downside I can think of is you have to consider you might not be right 100% of the time so be careful how much you share your insights with others.

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I do, I am very careful, trust me :)
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and thx for you respond :)
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I think it's great, but it annoys people to realize they're wrong

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ha, yeah, I've seen that :/
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Just stand back and watch them be wrong if it gets to be too much, lol
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Yeah..but when it's my family who's wrong..it hurts to just watch them be ignorant and stupid.. :/
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I have the exact same problem, I know it sucks, just put your headphones in and try to ignore them
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