1 year ago
Last edited at 12:20PM on 4/18/2013
If your depressed man see a doctor , psychiatrist , or a consoler . There is nothing wrong with getting help what's wrong is not getting help . It takes more strength to admit you have a problem than it does to remain silent. All it takes is that one time and then you are gone there is no coming back.
1 year ago
Last edited at 12:19PM on 4/18/2013
Talk to someone you trust BrandonBain I know what your dealing with I almost lost my boyfriend last night if he would have went a inch deeper I would have lost him. Remember people are here for you don't let people get you down. Ten years from now it will not matter what people said it will only matter who was there for you. I know it's not easy dealing with over coming cutting because you feel like it's the only way to take out your pain well it's not i'm getting help for depression I cried out for help. Know that your worth it and what people say does not matter. People take time to judge you but most of them don't take to too understand you and what your dealing with. Do something you enjoy don't cut it's not worth it I was in the hospital last year because I cut. Don't look at the past it's a step in the future it happens for a reason.
Find someone you can trust and confide in them. Have them be your rock. I have a friend who calls me every time she's about to cut herself, and I do my best to help her. Sometimes you just need reassurance from someone who cares enough to help.
iv been cutting for 3 years and when my mom found out she didnt help me, she threatened to beat me if i did it again which made my cutting worse, i still cut. you have to have a reason to stop cutting. you have to WANT to stop cutting
Stop thinking negative about yourself and look on the positive outcome of your life. And what all good things you got in it even though they may be small which is better than nothing. And you can also have somebody a relative or close friend you can confine yourself to and talk about what all bothers you. Keep in mind too that it's not healthy keeping everything bottled up inside because sooner or later your just hurt yourself or hurt somebody else. And don't be feeling weak or afraid to talk to somebody about how you feel too when actually talk to somebody when your feeling down usually helps out a whole lot. And hope you don't make a fatal mistake please reconsider on putting that cutting away and stop....
I deal with kids all the time who cut themselves and it seems to me that they do it because they like the feeling of hurting their self and they feel they deserve it. I went in the hospital before and saw people in their late 30's who still cut themself and had scars so deep all over their arms. you can never get rid of those scars and what are you suppose to tell your kids or significant other that you hated yourself so much that you had to cut yourself what will they think of you will they be afarid of you cutting them have you ever done anything so bad that you feel you deserve to be cut and bleed for what you have done and if you have how long are you going to punish yourself love yourself enough to stop hurting yourself before you have to explain this to your loved ones or before it is to late and you hit a major artery and die are a major nerve and paralyze your arm or hand.
Do you really want to stop, if you do you can do it, you just have to have something in your life you care lots about that can motivate you to do positive things, if you hang out with cutters they will only poor more things of what they are going through and will persuade you to feel negative about your life as well, i know that you probably think that no one cares about your life or why you were even born, but truthfully we are the only ones that can make our own choices in life, find your motivation on stopping( i had a stepson who was a cutter he stopped once he realized we did love him and cared about him, his mother had disowned him, left abandoned we took him in and we coped with him, he is now in a relationship and is very happy) if your home causes you depression and negative thoughts hang out with positive people
you will stop eventually once your realize how important life is and each part of your body i had a cousin who did that when he was your age he still has the cut marks all over his body and he did that for attention eventually he stopped its been 10yrs now so i suggest change your life your thoughts and realize how important life is we dont understand these things till it happens to us I Hope and prayer you stop doing that and change your self trust me its not difficult try it
i cut but my parents dont know im 13 and a girl i go to a counselor but i dont want to talke about it or my past but i stopped cutting and know i puch rock woo or concrete which makes my hand swell i want to stop but i cant tell anybody i want to but i cant i cant even talke about my past.................im not a bad kid but i need help.....please help:(
I am just letting you know I have never cut so if this helps or not I have no idea, you can test it out for me. First of all take away all of the things you cut with. Try a new hobby, and whenever you feel like cutting do that instead, like singing, or painting. Think about all the good things in life. Wear something to cover your wrists, like bracelets that way you will think about what you are doing before you even have the chance to take them off. Talk to your parents, I know it may seem awkward, but it can help them to understand what is going on so they can help. It may help to talk to someone, if you want to you can talk to me anytime, don't worry I won't judge I just want you do get better.
Hey, I used to be pretty depressed myself. I felt like no one really cared for me. The key for me was just getting by and saying "keep going just a little bit longer". I had suicidal thoughts. But now I have an amazing girlfriend who loves me. 8)
Well, it took me several years, but you've gotta have coping skills and a strong support. It may be one of those instances when you need residential care, and its okay if you do. That's what i had to do. It is not easy. I know this sounds clich? and use a journal write in it every nigh, it works believe me. This is an addiction that you want to stop. I still till this day want to do it, but it is an easy way to die. Hope this helps.
cutting is very addicting, I know because I've done it. I was once so upset with my girlfriend I literally grabbed a knife from the kitchen stared her in the eye and hacked both of my arms up until they were numb. Crazy I know, but I was young and filled with rage. How I overcame all of the cutting, rage, anger, stress, violence was very simple. I created a goal in my life. Something to look forward too. If you truly want to stop cutting, set a goal to make get a tattoo, meet a nice girl, play an instrument, something to take your mind off of all the pain your going threw. Something to look forward too man. Listen to ICP, or Bridal. Anything can help.
think of the people around you and how they would react if anything happened to you from cutting. people love you. i suggest seeking professional advice/counseling. i did and it made a huge difference. I'm a new me:) good luck! x