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How do you focus on yourself? I have a habit of focusing more on the guy I'm dating than myself. Im asking how do you keep focus on yourself

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To keep your life in BALANCE you need to take time out to recharge your batteries, otherwise you will burn out eventually. Me time whether it's a relaxing bubble bath, waxing your legs, getting a haircut or just spending time with your canine best friend, it allows you to wind down. I find the latter the most soothing to my soul & all the stress of life just melts away. If you don't focus on your innerself your coping mechanisms will overload. While its good & kind to focus on others needs, no ones needs are more important than your families if you have children. If you don't then your needs are the most important. Spoil your boyfriend but only after you have done what is necessary for your well being & peace of mind first.

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Aww ain't that just cute . Idk you probably just really like the guy. However he should not come before you or your well being .

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i don't know the answer but i agree with you ,don't put people ahead of you they treat you like a floormat. it took years for me ti learn this

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You just have to refocus . You know the answer !

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Having self respect, enough umph in your pride & moral beliefs to KNOW WHEN to put your foot down & speak up for yourself. To never allow your man to blow you off, to show up late, walk in front of you.. you get it I'm sure. A great guy comes from being shown how to treat a REAL LADY with respect. You teach him how to treat you by what you will allow. You don't have to be mean, just honest & firm.

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