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Why is CHANGE so hard for me?

whether for good or bad, im afraid of change. even right now when I'm miserable and know I'm not happy, I can't change. what's wrong with me?

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Because you fear the outcome.

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Many are like that. I was. Fear of the unknown I suppose, stepping outside your comfort zone. I trust in Jesus completely. What ever changes He will help me thru it.

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Sometime people just have a hard time dealing with it. Just focus on all the changes in your life that have been good so far even little things. Like maybe you had a crappy car and now you got a better one, or a neighbor you didn't like moved away and now you have a new one. Or after a long cold winter spring finally comes with all it's amazing changes, like fresh air and sunshine and flowers.

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maybe u dont feel like u deserved that change? or maybe yur just scared that u wont know how to respond or act during change and mess it up

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maybe because you been one way for too long

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don't fear to going outside,
don't fear to talking people,

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Lots of people are afraid of change. It takes them out of their comfort zone. Try doing something spontaneous. It will send a surge of adrenaline throughout your body and help you to become less afraid of change that awaits :)

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Simple. You re afraid. But if its from God, then just trust Him and go forward. Like Abraham with Isaac. Metaforicly, just close your eyes, throw yourself and trust that God will catch you. METAFORICLY. What I mean is nothing matters, just do it. God will take care of it. Exchange your fear for trust in God that everything will be ok. When you do that, change wont be a big deal for you. But make sure that the change is something good. Gby

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Change can be scary. Nothing is wrong with you. That's natural.

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