11 months ago
Last edited at 9:59AM on 4/19/2013
Just step away from the situation. Say that you won't choose sides and you won't get pulled into their fight. Whenever someone pulls that card on me, I always simply put my hands up and say "hey, don't drag me into this." I hope your friends can work it out! Stay out of the thick of it-it's their argument to work out.
11 months ago
Last edited at 10:05AM on 4/19/2013
If one asks just say I want to be both your friends and hate to see u fighting can't pick a side because I don't want to get in the middle of this so please try your hardest to be nice to eachother and ease be friends and stop fighting TRUST ME IT WORKS
I never choose sides, if they can't except that I'm friends with both of them, then I'd walk away from the one who says choose. I've been there before, I've always refused to talk about what they got in the fight over, I wouldn't offer advice about what they fought about either. Usually it's just a matter of time before they work things out, but sometimes I've seen it take years. Life's too short for all that nonsense.
tell them that you will not choose. That it is your right to be friends with whomever you choose. just because they do not get along does not mesn that your relationship with either of them should suffer for it. if they continue to ask you to choose I would choose neither, you don't need friends that put stipulations on your relationship.