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What move to make and how?

What move to make and how?
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So there is this girl I noticed in the school library and I've wanted to approach her for 2 weeks for on 3. She seems quite(maybe shy) and she always has her headphones in like everyone else. She never really makes eye contact with me, I feel invisible but the past thursday we made eye contact for a few seconds. Usually she sits at a table but for a couple days she's been at the computers and I'm new to the school (like a month and 2 weeks new). she's cute! I struggling with timing, approach, what to say; really i need help on the whole 9 yards, fast starting to second guess!?!?

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Go slow, Day 1 say Hi. Day 2 say Hey how ya doin'? Day 3 say Hi nice to see you again, etc etc staying a little longer each time, before ya know you'll be having an actual conversation. She'll be impressed by your confidence. But don't ask her to be your GF, just ask her out on a DATE.

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Day 4: COME AT ME BRO
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Tony......"tips on how to be a stalker".......that'll be $19.95......8)
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HA! Cha-CHING! $$$
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You should start by saying hi the next time you meet. She might ignore you at first but she will start responding if you insist. Then, you can befriend her by encouraging some conversation. Once she gets to know you. It will be easy for you to ask her out. Good luck.

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Ask her what she's listening to and keep asking questions: what kind of music do they play? Do you really like them? Have you been to a concert? Is that what you usually listen to? What other music do you like? I'm new here, what's it like? Do you like it? What would you suggest I do to make friends? Before you know it you'll be having a nice conversation with her. Smile a lot. Have some chips or cookies and share with her.

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A beat -for love -that grows.

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This has always worked for me 100% Get a piece of paper Wright on it " YOUR # " Then hand it to her with a pen and say I have been meaning to get this from you. Hand her the paper and pen and smile. Works every time. It will take her a second to figure out that your asking for her Phone number. Then when it hit's her she will smile and give it to you. Tell her thank you then walk away right after you get it back. Call her that night!!! The key is to write only (Your #) on the paper! It shows your fun and exciting and playful.

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