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Like most things, I had unexpectedly found my best friend. On June 16, 2009 I met my best guy friend. We were close, we dated on and off, the longest being 5 months. We broke up last September, where I went on to date my crush who I had a crush on for 14 months previous to that. Then in Feb this year my best guy friend asked me out, after saying no many times, I had fallen again and said yes. We broke up the next day, The first time he ever broke up with me. We got back together 2 days later, dated for 2 weeks and broke up again. He faked wanting to be with me so I wouldn't stop talking to him. Our entire friendship/relationship has been long distance. For awhile I was the only GF he ever had. After we broke up, and I was still in love with him he went and got with a girl. She treated him like crap and left, and he continued to ignore my feelings. Last night I got the news he is dating one of my friends. We used to never fight now it seems like every night, So tonight I called off the friendship. After many laughs and memories. It's done. Am i overreacting? Saying goodbye we were both crying...he said he loves me like a sister, and I can't stand that. Should I go back, or move on?

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Rylee, with all due respect, did you feel any drama and chaos churning within you as you typed your description for your question? Life's too short. Walk away, let your heart heal, then you will be open to meet a partner who isn't long distance but within distance. I wish you the best with this one no matter how exhausting you are making yourself going back and forth with these two individuals.

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Indeed!
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Move on this is causing too much trouble you can't be friends like this just stop dating each other and you guys will be fine

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The fact that your relationship/friendship never worked gives a reason to move on. Think positively and take it for the better of you tow. Maybe you needed a break from each other, which might help you discover yourself. The guy is dating right now and she had a girl who he treated her like crap, like you said. Let him be, maybe one day she will realize what he lost.

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I'm sorry that you are feeling this loss.
But Harry was right "men and women can't be friends". It will be painful but you must move on.

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time to pack up and hit the road

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Im srry but id think u can do ether one. Of u still love him and miss ur friend. U need to sit them down and decuss how u feel

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Sounds like your pursuing
a relationship that's more
empty than full.. Really?
Don't you want more than that?

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Hi blades. Your right Love is a feeling not an excuse to be miserable
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Sometimes a clean break is the best way to go. Sometimes staying friends creates dramas where there shouldn't be. You need peace & harmony in your life. If Loneliness may be a problem for you, get a dog. Believe me a good dog rocks your world.

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