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What do I do when one of the "popular girl" doesn't like me?

I never had someone bully me, hate me or even dislike me. people tell me I'm really popular but this 1 girl with a sassy personality comes up to me and says "Your hair is really messed up" I don't know if she's popular.. I'm popular because I have lots of friends and is practically nice to everyone. but since she has a sassy personality does that make her popular right away?! she always insults people but only has 2 friends I don't get how in movies always the popular girls are mean won't that make them un-liked?

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Why do you have to impress everyone?
Just ignore her...

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Just be like hey u.need to stop just because u only have two friends don't mean u have to be mean to other people and btw maybe thts y u don't have alot of friends

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Ignore her. She's an ugly person inside. She's just jealous. It will be hard, but by ignoring her, it shows you are better than her. She will get tired of harassing you And move on to her next victim.

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just ignore her

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Don't listen to her and ignore her but if she keep on her activities then warn her !

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Be yourself and don't worry @ other people.They don't define you and chances are that you will surpass them as life goes on.Never let others dictate your future.

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With all due respect, why do you care? I am pretty certain you have many friends who do like you and care about you unconditionally. Take this life lesson, don't care what anyone thinks about you but yourself. Be humble and kind. Caring and compassionate. Respectful and truthful. You will go very far. It's school and when you graduate you probably won't ever see these girls again. Just be yourself!

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Thank you Ravin. Hope you are enjoying your weekend!
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There is always going to be people like that in life. Just ignore them :)

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Popularity should not be regarded. It boosts your self esteem, but don't be addicted to it. With this girl, if she brings up something again, reply back "thanks for taking the time out of your day to give me some personal advice." She's not exactly a bad person for speaking her mind, but she does need discretion ( and by that, I mean only speaking when necessary).

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You have the body you have, hair, eyes, feet, all you have that they don't have! Own up to your beauty that-nobody can take from you with words! Your beauty is yours! Run with it! Words just hurt if you let them. Make your young days about you and your family ! It's hard I truly know!!!

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I'm not sure what the problem is?

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She's caught off guard because no one has ever done or said these things to her before. She's used to adoration . Therefore, she doesn't know how to react.
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Yes ! you are channeling
Much wisdom today
Say it then away it Baby!
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Say it then sway it ... That is
Lol I'm having a typo kind of day!
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Say this: ..it's sad you are so obsessed with me ;)
That works in my experience, and no matter wot they say to that if u jus laugh (with ur friends) then it usually shuts them up

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You're caught off guard because no one has ever done this to you before and you're not sure how to react. Just remember that this is what she chose to do to get your attention. Next time say, loudly,"What is YOUR PROBLEM? If you want to be friends, then SAY SO. Otherwise, why are you insulting me whenever you have the chance?" And then MAKE SURE you say this afterwards..." What have I ever DONE TO YOU?" This way you've shown your strength , but also invited her to be friends if that's what she's trying to get at. She may end up being a pretty great friend. She's confused too as to how to act. I think she wants to be your friend.

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You have a great point!
Much understanding and wisdom in your words!
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Use sarcasm if she's being a snob. And just love who you are and don't let her bring you down.

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good answer
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She seems like one of those girls who feel like they need to bring everyone else's self esteem down to boost theirs up. She's sassy, but because of that, she makes you not know how to respond to that.

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Haters gunna hate. Just be you!!

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