Submit a question to our community and get an answer from real people.
Submit

Okay, so I asked a girl out and she said "idk" and I asked if I could help her know, and she said "I need some time", what should I do?

she just went through a breakup too, and I think she needs some time, but idk :/

Report as

Hi there! :)

So if she went through a break up I think you should give her some time and space. Girls are usually really emotional and confused after a break up also some arent to fund of guys either. What I would do is send her a quick message simply saying "Im here if you need someone to talk to.." I would personally find that adorable :)

Hope I helped <3

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (2)
Report as
Very helpful(:
Report as
Im glad! :)
Report as
Add a comment...

If she went through a breakup it is advisable to give her space because she is still recovering from the breakup. However, if she did not decline it means you stand a chance when she makes up her mind.

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (1)
Report as
Okay, thanks, but she still likes her ex a bit, and I'm trying to win her over.
Report as
Add a comment...

She needs time, give her time

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Yeah she needs time to trust and heal after a breakup. If you wait and be there for her through it then it might speed up her healing time and want to get to know you more. If you don't mind

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (1)
Report as
Thanks. That was really helpful (:
Report as
Add a comment...

spend time with her and get to know her.

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Do you have an answer?
Answer this question...
Did you mean?
Login or Join the Community to answer