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Is it okay if I dated my aunts' ex boyfriend?

I'm almost 15, my aunt is 21, and he is 16. They dated and accused they loved each other. The thing is, I had feelings for him ever since we started talking, and he's one of my best friends. He told me that he started liking me before he talked to my aunt. Within the next few days of him telling me this, I told him that I really liked him. As of right now, my aunt and he aren't talking anymore. I'm afraid my aunt will get mad at me for wanting to date him, or even liking him. I got jealous when they started dating..What should I do?

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It's not ok for her to have dated him!

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hey, as long as they weren't involved sexually it's completely fine. 5 years isn't that long when you think that Mikey Way, who is 32, is engaged to a 19-year-old.
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right she could go to jail.+he probaly only used her to get alchol
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you don't know that for sure. he could have really liked her in the beginning but then felt like something was wrong.
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he said he loved her, but i don't know if he actually loved her if he loved what she did. there's a huge difference
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yeah he problay loved her for what she did
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so i don't know if it'd be weird if him and I tried dating, cause my aunt dated him.
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well try being friends w/ him 1st then if you guys develop feeling for each other then date.but if you want it to last long be friends for while 1st then date
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thanks!!
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Talk to your aunt about it if it really worries you/

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I think it would be weird though cause she dated him and she told me everything about him that he had told her. anything they did. everything. it's like i'm just getting her sloppy seconds.
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The best thing to do is to talk to your aunt about this and see how she feels. If she's okay with it, then it's fine.

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Do you live in Arkansas by any chance??

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uhm. NO. hahah
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*poker face* ^^^ lol
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That's no way to be Queen
Really dumb thing to do

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Hi blades star:)
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australis
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Eureka! How are you!
Thanks australis :)
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You should stop dating him cause your aunt is probably way more than that.

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i'm not dating him. I just like him.
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I'm really lost here. A guy, who claims he liked you, started dating your aunt. Your adult 21 year old aunt dated a minor, 16 year old boy. Now,you want to keep someone, who has worn out his welcome, coming around the family.
I say wait three years, before dating him.

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i want to keep them both. My aunt has had problems with my family, so I'm not exactly speaking to her that much anymore. On the other hand, i talk to the guy everyday all day.
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@medic...maybe they're going to audition for Jerry Springer
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Jer-RY! Jer-RY! Jer-RY!
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*throws beads*
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Talk to ur aunt an see if its on with her I y date him

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