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Why does my boy friend do this every time?!

The first time we went out, it was perfect. Though he cheated on me.
Still, me being that low self esteem girl, I went back out with him...... 7 times... Every time we broke up it was for the same reason...

I have had 2 other boy friends. And when me and him weren't on at one point, I moved on for the first time. It felt great. Though Jacob, (thats his name) convinced me by sweet talking and promising all of this lovey things and I went back to him! It was terrible! And the same situation happened again when I tried to move on!

What Im asking is: Why does my boy friend Jacob act perfect and lovey dovey to try to get me back, but when I am with him- he ignores me, avoids me, lies to me, and is a jerk????!!!!

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Because you allow him to. If a guy wrongs you once, he will do it again. And if a guy wrongs you twice and you allow him to continue doing it by getting back together with him, it is your fault. Leave him and find someone better because if this is how he's gonna treat a girl then he does not deserve you.

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thank you(:
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Honestly he is using you and you seriously need to move on . Find someone else low self confidence should not keep you with some jerk that treats you like cr@ap.

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Because I hate to say it but he's taking advantage of u are u popular? Because that's one reason how he is. Or I can see ur really pretty thats prob why

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no... im shy.. and thx.. lol
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Lol
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You allow him too! No one deserves to be treated so ignorant toward the person you "love". I suggest to ignore him.

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Typical cycle of abuse. If it worked seven times before why on earth would he stop? Drop him, he's a loser and you deserve better.

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Maybe he s a player. You gotta test him to se if he means what he says when he says it. Dont believe everything he says. Pray to Jesus for wisdom. Gby

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your letting him be in control and he knows that. he only cheats on you because he knows your cool with it. you need to take charge and dump him. I SUGGEST GO TO Steak n shake and say im dumping you... and dump your milkshake on him and walk away sassy like in the movies!!!

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Your welcome
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You dont deserve someone like that , you need to finish it with him .. find someone a lot better ... move on and tell him ..

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